Big question 'That mileage is about to increase further as we now have to put my father in a care home, which will involve about 3x100 mile round trips per week on the motorway.'
Your continued connection with your relatives is not only admirable but the distances you encounter are increasingly common.
Please take this in the spirit of good advice, as part of my job I try to persuade caring supportive families to consider moving their loved ones closer to them, cutting out distance in times of emergency and keeping an important connection alive.
I dont know your personal circumstances nor your father's health needs but in my experience a carehome is still a carehome no matter where it is situated, CQC is a useful guide.
If consent is an issue, I would consider a best interest & least restrictive option to promote the move closer to your home.
I accept I have not considered other family members and perhaps my suggestions are void based on that alone.
I hope you and your father have many happy visits together.
Edited by IrishNeil on 16/02/2020 at 13:02
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