That is a shame as I have literally just stumbled across this forum as I am experiencing this same issue with a neighbour using the dropped kerb I recently got installed to drive up and then drive across the footpath to access their property further down and was looking for advice. Obviously having to save up for over a year to get a dropped kerb Installed and for a driveway was not easy for me but we were advised there was a parking scheme to be implemented on our street to address parking issues etc.
Residents were offered a discounted drop kerb as the local authority and local housing association were accessing a fund for a parking scheme where all the old cracked pavements and grass verges were to be replaced with new pavements and road resurfacing, and at the properties who did not already have a dropped kerb access or anyone who did not get one installed, there would be “grasscrete” put in place and barriers up to protect the new pavements to not allow anyone to cross the footpaths, and even went far as to say that after this work was competed if anyone then caught parking on gardens/driveways with no legal crossing would be enforced.
A lot of mine and my neighbours properties have used our front garden for years as there was no safe off street parking and as we did not want to have this concrete block parking options with bollards across the end of our gardens stopping us parking did everything we could to get a drive put in and dropped kerb and approved all before the cut off date. To our surprise bollards were not put in place surrounding the concrete base parking but they were not put in place or intended tor people to cross over into their properties.
The actual installation of that concrete patch meant no crossing the path way. My neighbour who I have just had a very upsetting experience with has now not only used the dropped kerb and continued up across the pathway to access their property, they have used the drop kerb to drive into my actual driveway to access a gap in some fence posts to drive through to access their garden! My neighbours property is a corner house so can actually access the other side of their garden and have a paved area there but as they have two large DPD vans blocking that access think it’s ok to now use the dropped kerb to access my garden to cut through to theirs! They rent the property and I have no contact with the landlord. I don’t usually speak to them. As it’s now dark at 4pm ish I can see from my upstairs window car lights etc. I was in my front bathroom and saw red lights coming across my driveway ( not the dropped kerb) but as the glass is frosted i jumped into the landing to look out the window the catch the tail end of next doors car entering their garden off my gravel driveway (driving over my wood sleeper edging) through a gap between some old fence posts. in disbelief at what I was seeing I went down and opened the front door to hopefully catch them before they went inside.
In a very calm tone and not agressively at all said “excuse me? ... did you just drive over garden/driveway? It was a man who ive never really seen before ( they have several family members) and he literally launched into this rage at me and tbh was talking so quickly and aggressively that I could not hear everything he said clearly but he would not stop shouting at me... called me racist?! ... I somehow managed to keep my cool still in belief tbh what he was doing and kept calmly Tryin to say “will you please let me speak?” But I was cut off and he kept shouting ... I was trying to just at this point trying to speak to him and say that I’m not saying tori can’t use the dropped kerb but you can’t drive onto my garden and drive over it to get to your garden insisting he was legally entitled to as long as he wasn’t blocking anyone and insisting he was gonna carry on doing so..
I ended up walking away back to my door and he called me f**king stupid ... so I did again calmly say back there’s no need to be abusive ... I and I was so upset and shook up just went back inside and couldn’t. Stop shaking ... I really don’t know what to do ... I hate confrontation but I do feel like I can not let this go by and not address it .. I just don’t want any aggravation but this man was vile to me and I can’t allow them to just do what they like ...
I don’t understand why they can’t just park their vans further down as they Have plenty of room doesn’t that side of the toad as it’s the corner house and does not encroach on anyone else ... they used to drive on and off that way all the time (illegally, still, now the parking scheme and new pavements have also just been done) the concrete patch of parking where there is no dropped kerb directly in front of their property (which they have never used) is now where I will sometimes park a vehicle as my son has recently passed his driving test and has a nearly new car and wants to park on the drive. This is not blocking access to their property and they shouldn’t be parking as they have no legal crossing that way (or the other side of property for that matter but that’s the side they always use if their families dpd vans aren’t blocking it) I’m only mentioning about me parking a vehicle on this concrete park which is not allocated to anyone as they have never even used it, but in the mans rant he seemed to mention about the vehicle parked there means he can’t come up the dropped kerb opposite my driveway and drive down the path to get on his garden! So this was why he’s used my driveway?! Wtf ?! and he’s insisted it’s not illegal and he’s going to carry on doing it ...
help I actually want to keep the peace despite how vile he was to me and calling my a racIst which in itself was despicable! I said barely a sentence to him before he launched a verbal assault on me! ( I think cos I’m a woman has not helped with this issue??) my son has said he will speak to him but I don’t want him to make a scene which he understands but I do feel like this man needs to know that the way he spoke to me was completely unacceptable but he won’t engage with me calmly so I feel like another male may be the only option?
My son is a fair minded person too so he won’t be inappropriate but I feel at least May more effectively be able to get across that they can not use my “driveway” property to get onto his garden and legally actually has no right to cross the footpath legally to access his property by driving further down the path ... any advice?
Part of me what’s to make a complaint official incase there any escalations? but I don’t want to unnecessarily cause any more problems .. but I know this man will not speak to me in a decent manner ... and I’m scared he will start making up stuff maybe too?! ... help or advice appreciated
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Edited by Xileno on 18/11/2021 at 09:18
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