I think you'd find a crossover SUV like the Q2 or Q3 would suit you well. They're just as easy as a hatchback to drive, with the advantages you've mentioned. There's a new Q3 now on sale and it's much better than its predecessor. If you don't need as much space, the Q2's a good choice. We're currently running one for six months and Georgia is an SUV convert (www.honestjohn.co.uk/our-cars/audi-q2/). As an alternative, look at other cars from within Volkswagen Group, such as the Skoda Karoq. If you'd prefer something premium, the Volvo XC40 is excellent, and the BMW X2 is definitely worth a look too.