Paul
Behaviour ? Respect from others?
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In many ways I agree with you, but many will say 'in the commercial world, poeple will want to work with you if they think you can contribute to the success of their venture. If they don't already know you, how are they to know you are successful and therefore likely to bring success to the venture?'
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Paul,
Then it has to be the tidy 10yr old Mercedes with a personal plate. Remember I've said it before.....
Apreciation of quality, a certain standing in the community but not wasteful or over flash....and comfortable with their own position in life.
Does depend on the venture though...perhaps you wanted more thrust then it has to be a new BMW.
Ouch!
David
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David
What about the argument that all a ten year old Mercedes says is - I can't afford a new Mercedes?
Regards
Paul
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Paul,
It could be seen as inverse snobbery. "I could easily afford £30K for a new Merc but I am sufficiently happy with my status and image not to require to demonstrate my wealth to others. Those that know me, know"
It's the difference between"old money" and "new money"
BTW that not me I am talking about here. I have a 1990 740.
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Agree with you.
I'm not religious but was reminded last Sunday(Palm Sunday) our Lord rode into Jerusalem on a small donkey not on a white charger !
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Paul said...
>What about the argument that all a ten year old Mercedes says is - I can't afford a new Mercedes?
Good test Paul...
1. Anyone who thought like that wouldn't be asked to join my venture*.
2. Actually I have a family member not many miles from here who really enjoys his 15yr old 200 series (with less than 50K recorded). He could walk in to the MB dealers tomorrow and buy a new one for 30K...but for what he says.
As I hinted it's the inner self that matters, not the perception of others (can I be a Mason now?).
David
*Is that why my ventures never make more than £10 a week?
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David,
Your second paragraph sounds like a nice way to live. Well put.
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Paul,
The eminence referred to is within the Brotherhood. Be a good mason. Learn your lines, regular attendance, good speeches at the Festive Board, charitable work etc.
Get Provincial honours at a good rank "Rising to eminence by merit..........
Takes a long time to reach Grand rank.
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Alwyn
I do understand what you mean, I'm a big believer in Ecclesiastes, but it is difficult to translate these concepts into practical steps in contempory business situations where most trade is done outside your local community and image is all! So how do you signal - I could afford £30K for a new car but for sound reasons choose to drive a 10 year old?
Regards
Paul
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>So how do you signal - I could afford £30K for a new car but for sound >reasons choose to drive a 10 year old?
By spending the money you save on a £3000 suit, a handful of £200 shirts, a £500 pair of shoes, a calfskin briefcase, and an understated Swiss watch of some kind (preferably in white gold). Make sure the car is immaculate. This is only if you really have to impress these people, mind you. My feeling is, if that's what impresses them, they are not worth impressing. And anyway, if you have to drive yourself, you haven't made it yet.
Chris
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