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Intimidation, what do i do? - Imagos
I will not be intimidated by anyone.. ever. Not in any form of life, working, driving, by a hoodie out shopping or whatever..

So how should i have dealt with this situation?

Driving on a duel carriageway with roadworks, a single coned off lane that last for around 2 miles with nowhere else to go. A young lad in a white van quite literally feet from my bumper trying to intimidate me to go faster even though i'm at 40mph which is the temporary camera enforced limit on this piece of road.

I tire of his pathetic and unessecary driving i gesture for him to back off with my hand. as polite as i can be,

Arrive at roundabout at the end of roadworks, he pulls alongside and wants to fight me!!

What do i do? Nothing as you'd would expect from a sensible person like me.

But i'm sick of this, absolutly sick to death of being intimidated by mainly van or lorry drivers who use there size to intimidate me by pushing me down the road..

So how to I deal with this virtually daily occurence?

I can't take much more.
Intimidation, what do i do? - Tomo
Sorry, but try to ignore them; they do not just go for you. Leave it to the very large young bad tempered blighter they will mistakenly annoy, sooner or later!
Intimidation, what do i do? - Vin {P}
First of all, next time, I would omit any kind of signal at all - they can and will b emisintepreted. No point at all in responding; just let them get on and out of your way.

You might want to look where your clear anger about this comes from. Not from the situation, certainly; it would have been quite possible to laugh at this.

One way to deal with driving's vicissitudes is to think "that's interesting, let's take a look at what this guy is doing three inches from my back bumper" rather than "that's annoying".

If you stop being angry at it, it won't bother you.

V
Intimidation, what do i do? - Roger Jones
It's not you who's sick, Stuart, it's the thugs. As Tomo says, just ignore them.

When that sort of thing happens, I always try to think "now, there's an accident waiting to happen, but let it be somewhere else". Just like the idiot (middle-age male but lacking mature brain) driving a dark green first-generation Peugeot 406 in Welwyn Garden City Friday lunchtime: doing at least 50 in a 30 zone, came straight at me passing a solitary parked car, not even a signal, into my lane against my right of way -- sheer idiocy and destined for his come-uppance. And the fake-blonde woman (again in middle age but lacking brain cells) driving into Hitchin on the A505 early last week in a bright metallic-blue Corsa or similar, who deliberately accelerated as I was overtaking her near the end of the two-lane section. Deliberate? Yup, as manifested in her aggressive laughter. She thought she wouldn't see me again, I'm sure, but I diverted from my intended route and caught up with her at some traffic lights; sitting directly behind her car, I made sure she could see that I was writing down her index number.

Ah, that feels better. Perhaps someone out there will recognize the drivers from the descriptions. And, did you notice, they weren't young males. Now I wonder where some youngsters get their bad behaviour from . . .
Intimidation, what do i do? - steveo30
if i have a tailgater..i slow down even more

just try and be carefull not to get boxed in at the next junction..incase theyre a fighter
Intimidation, what do i do? - codefarm
Agreed. The next bloke he tailgates might be a colleague of deleted - DD.
Intimidation, what do i do? - NowWheels
Sorry to hear this Stuart -- I hate that sort of thing too.

With folks in a hurry, I usually just let them overtake if I can, 'cos I pefer to have them in front of me rather than behind. But I'm never sure what to do with the ones who want to push me along in a situation where overtaking is impossible.

What I sometimes do is to slow down to 10-20mph, on the grounds that if they are going to be that close to me, I'd prefer them to be doing 40mph. But I'm afraid that may only enrage them even more, and I've no idea which is the best option.

What I'd really like is to have a magic button in the car to releas eone of those gadgets the police have to deflate all their tyres ... but I know that isn't going to happen.

When it happens to me tho, it's mostly a BMW behind, not a van. With vans the drivers tend to be young, but with BMWs it's nearly always an older man in a suit. I do find that both sorts of bully are less likely to try it on if the coned-off area has lottsa spd camras.
Intimidation, what do i do? - Pugugly {P}
"it's mostly a BMW behind !"

Not me though I hit all the profiles !

I tend to feather the brakes when I am a victim, all them LEDs tend to put them off especially after dark.
Intimidation, what do i do? - NowWheels
"it's mostly a BMW behind !"
Not me though I hit all the profiles !


I don't mind you hitting the profiles, just don't hit my car! ;)
I tend to feather the brakes when I am a victim,
all them LEDs tend to put them off especially after dark.


Maybe I don't drive cars with powerful enough brake lights, but when I try that I find it only gains me a short respite before they figure I'm using the left foot ... and then I reckon I'm worse off than before, cos now the aggressive idiot 50cm from my bumper reckons he can ignore the brake light.
Intimidation, what do i do? - expat
>With folks in a hurry, I usually just let them overtake if I can, 'cos I pefer to have them in front of me rather than behind.

I used to do that until I had one stop in front of me after I let him past. He blocked the road, got out, and threatened me. Now I never let them past. While they are behind me I have the open road in front and can get away. As soon as they get past me they can block me in. You cannot trust these sort of people to act rationally. And yes this was on a visit to the UK. Wirral to be exact. A great message for foreign tourists.
Intimidation, what do i do? - James_tddi
Expat - I'm genuinely intrigued - what do you do to stop them overtaking ?
I would have thought that deliberately blocking an aggressive tailgater from overtaking would only serve to escalate the aggression and the potential problem ?

James
Intimidation, what do i do? - expat
James_tddi. I don't actually stop them overtaking. You can't really do that but I don't pull into the side and make it easy for them to get past. It is bad enough having an aggressive nutter behind you without having one in front who can then force you to a stop. You have to judge whether the person behind is just being in a hurry and is going to zoom off into the distance as soon as he can or whether you are about to have a road rage incident.
Intimidation, what do i do? - R75
Believe me Stuart, It is not only Trucks (not counting myself) and Vans who try to use the intimidation approach. The other day I was in my car going round a roundabout to the 4th exit, So I started from the outside lane(lane 2) and the stupid person who was in lane one also wanted the 4th exit, even though her lane was marked for a left turn only, She was in an old ford escort convertiable had a fag hanging out of her mouth and a very bad bottle blonde hair do, she forced her way in and then had the cheek to stop and call me every name under the sun, as did her 14 year old daughter who was in the car with her. I nearly got out and offered them directions back to Essex as that is clearly where they would have felt more at home. I now find that Women are noramlly more aggressive then men, This could be because that men are afraid that the other guy will front up to them and it will end in fists, with women they don't seem to have that fear as most men won't hit them back. Very sad state of affairs..
Intimidation, what do i do? - Dude - {P}
In my experience it is normally youngsters in white vans that are responsible for this appalling intimidation.

I sometimes wonder if "white van man" is totally exempted from the wrath of speed cameras. As they are company vehicles, they can deny they were driving at the time and if a company has multiple employees, how can plod make a prosecution stick without video evidence of the offending driver.
Intimidation, what do i do? - mikeyb
In my experience it is normally youngsters in white vans that
are responsible for this appalling intimidation.
I sometimes wonder if "white van man" is totally exempted from
the wrath of speed cameras. As they are company vehicles,
they can deny they were driving at the time and if
a company has multiple employees, how can plod make a prosecution
stick without video evidence of the offending driver.


Not the case - my employer had a case a couple of years back where a company pool car was captured on film. All of the possible law breakers denied driving at that time so the company was fined £1000 for not keeping correct records of who was driving the car.
Intimidation, what do i do? - hjd
A friend of mine, who could politely be described as a fine figure of a man, drives vans (small and large). If he has someone making gestures and threatening him, he blows them a kiss. May not be orthodox, but they don't know how to react..
Intimidation, what do i do? - storme
your all missing the biggest point......there are NO police on the roads anymore,,,,we have hundreds of speed camera's and loads of initiatives and loads of waffle,,but lets face it,,,we can do what we want on the roads now

i often see

cyclists riding down dual carriageways
people on the phone
people who pull over to chat on the fone,,,in the exact spot it starts to ring..this means ANYWHERE
smokey old bones that havnt an MOT
people who park where thay want even on crossings or roundabouts
people who ignore one ways systems

i was recently on a motorway doing 80 mph ON THE INSIDE LANE

my daughter asked me why i was driving so slow

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Intimidation, what do i do? - R75
i often see
cyclists riding down dual carriageways


To my knowledge that is not yet forbidden, But I may be wrong!!!!!
Intimidation, what do i do? - NARU
I've often said that this sort of behaviour was going to be the direct result of the police policy becoming so one dimensional and only focussing on speeding.

You only have to look at the number of people who use a (hand-held) phone whilst driving to realise that a large group of people have started to decide for themselves which traffic laws they choose to obey.

At least you escaped OK. A friend on a motorcycle was deliberately rammed from behind in a similar circumstance.

Intimidation, what do i do? - henry k
>>I often see.... people who ignore one way systems
>>
I have seen this a lot of times and it is the most worrying of all.
It is obviously NOT a mistake. I know several rat runs that are blocked by making selected roads one way but these idiots are blasting throught because they are aware the risks of getting caught are minimal.
I have observed a procession of these idiots sprinting through a road opposite a school by Kings Cross.
Next sites for cameras?
Intimidation, what do i do? - Waino
your all missing the biggest point......there are NO police on the
roads anymore,,,,we have hundreds of speed camera's and loads of initiatives
and loads of waffle,,but lets face it,,,we can do what
we want on the roads now


I guess on a Sunday evening, roadplod is drinking cocoa and watching Heartbeat. Pity there was no one around tonight to witness the character driving up the A11/A14 east on his front parking lights/no rear lights/no indicators at 80+ mph. Such skill!!! And the motorcyclist, completely dressed in black, with no rearlight. And the Fiesta with a defective rear light .... aaargh!
Intimidation, what do i do? - Bill Payer
your all missing the biggest point......there are NO police on the
roads anymore,,,,we have hundreds of speed camera's and loads of initiatives
and loads of waffle,,but lets face it,,,we can do what
we want on the roads now
i often see
cyclists riding down dual carriageways
people on the phone
people who pull over to chat on the fone,,,in the exact
spot it starts to ring..this means ANYWHERE
smokey old bones that havnt an MOT
people who park where thay want even on crossings or roundabouts
people who ignore one ways systems
i was recently on a motorway doing 80 mph
ON THE INSIDE LANE

my daughter asked me why i was driving so slow

So (apart from the cyclists) all those other things are illegal, but doing 80 is OK? Don't get me wrong, I drive at whatever speed I feel is OK, but it made me laugh when a guy closed on me at high speed (I was doing 70), then swerved in front of me and gestured madly because I was holding a 'phone.
Intimidation, what do i do? - white van man
You never see a police car on the motorways unless there's been an accident, HGV's go much too fast i.e 70mph carrying 40 tons, middle laners, I once travelled down the M40 for about 30 miles keeping in the lefthand lane at 70 mph except when overtaking a lady driver was going at the same speed as me and never moved out of the middle lane for 30 miles. What about the lunatics that leave it to the last few seconds before moving over to leave the motorway.( I'm a white van man of the older and careful variety.)
Intimidation, what do i do? - islandman
You really only have one sensible choice when faced with this type of behaviour.

It's actually quite common to have some idiot tailgating 'cos you ain't going as fast as they want you to. As annoying as this is the best option usually to indicate left and slow down. they will usually come past (avoid eye contact with them) & hope & pray that they get caught in the speed trap just coming up! I agree with the setiment that it's far better to have these nutters in front rather than behind.

If you just can't bring yourself to adopt this 'passive' aproach then remember there ARE real maniacs on the road and you may just have one behind you this time. If you feel you have to challenge and confront intimidation against you I would suggest you just ask yourself, is it worth it? After hes gone by unless you're very unlucky you will never see them again.


Intimidation, what do i do? - PhilW
"HGV's go much too fast i.e 70mph carrying 40 tons"
Perhaps they should introduce governors which would restrict them to 60 ??!! Now there's an original idea.
Phil
Intimidation, what do i do? - Steptoe
As has been mentioned before, all social classes get to drive, from the inhabitants of Posh Hall to lowlife from the sink estates.

There is no rule to say one group makes better drivers than another though Posh Hall is more likely to have passed a driving test and have insurance, but whereas in normal life one can choose which grouping to interact with, on the roads you can have anyone next to you. It probably would be best not to pick a fight with the large tatooed shaven-headed gentleman you pass on the pavement ( unless you yourself are even bigger ) well this man could well be behind you, remember a tailgater is an agressive person.

When I occasionally get to drive SWMBO's MR2 and am followed closely as I often am, I get some little amusement from sticking punctiliously to any 30mph limits I come across, generally the miscreant cannot, or dare not, overtake, and then accelerating away at the end of the limit, just when they are about to roar past
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One mans junk is another mans treasure
Intimidation, what do i do? - Garethj
The exact same thing happened to me last week - 40mph limit, single lane roadworks but for me it was an artic truck behind me. There was a truck about 100 yards in front so I knew that if I went faster I'd still have him right behind me but I'd also be too close to the truck in front.

Add to the mix having wife and children in the car (wife understandably starting to panic...) and it all gets a bit horrible.

As NW said, I reduced my speed a bit so if I did have to stop I could slow down more gradually. Of course this made the truck driver even more agitated!

2 miles of roadworks has never seemed so far
Intimidation, what do i do? - R75
The exact same thing happened to me last week - 40mph
limit, single lane roadworks but for me it was an artic
truck behind me.


I hope you took the name and number of the truck and reported him to his company? And that is not a sarcastic comment, I have done it a couple of times before, once when one was tailgating me and another time when I saw one speeding in a village. When I had complaints come to me as a transport manager I always took them very seriously, The last thing I wanted was to have to stand up in court giving evidence for/against a rogue driver. I would also do it for any vehicle if it was sign written and I could contact the company concerned.
Intimidation, what do i do? - Garethj
I didn't take his number or company name unfortunately, I pulled off the motorway shortly after so I couldn't see the name on the side of the trailer.
Intimidation, what do i do? - WipeOut
Save yourself the grief and just indicate left, slow down and let them past. Don't give any hand signals and don't tap your brake lights or try anything smart. These people are nutters and you don't know what they'll do. If you have a towbar like me, resist the temptation to slam on your brakes!!! I must resist using my towbar!!!

I had this on Friday, driver tailgating me. It's very annoying. I was held up behind a slower car and so couldn't go any faster. I let him passed, and he then got held up by the slower car in front. I then passed him three hundred meters later on the left as he was waiting for a light change on the right filter. What was the point?

WipeOut

Intimidation, what do i do? - Garethj
Save yourself the grief and just indicate left, slow down and
let them past.>>

Absolutely agree. But when it's one lane of roadworks what can you do?
Intimidation, what do i do? - Leif
>> Save yourself the grief and just indicate left, slow down
and
>> let them past.>>
>>
Absolutely agree. But when it's one lane of roadworks what
can you do?


There's not much you can do except make sure that you have a large clear space in front, and focus on the road ahead, not the idiot behind. If you are stationary and pinned in by vehicles, and the idiot gets out, then sound the horn, so that other drivers are attracted to the commotion, and you have witnesses.

I disagree with some comments especially those from Vin. Being tailgated by a large vehicle (white van, 4x4, petrol tanker) is frightening due to the danger: were I to do an emergency stop, I would be the crumple zone for the idiot behind. I usually pull over if and when possible. But what do you do in lane 1 of a motorway, or on a 1 lane coned road?

White vans, 4x4s and and large lorries esp. petrol tankers (full?) do seem especially bad at this, presumably due to the feeling of invincibility of the high up driver.

I once had a coach nearly side swipe me, and I hooted my horn to alert him to my presence. This legitimate use of the horn provoked the driver to get out at the next lights, walk up to my car, and threaten to beat me up. What made matters worse, was that his coach company was based 10m from my house. I rang the company to complain, though I'm not sure it did much good.

Leif


Intimidation, what do i do? - davemar
I recently had a little exchange with a tailgater. I rarely get tailgated as I don't tend to faff around when driving, but this one was taking the biscuit a bit. Going along a 40mph limit road I was stuck behind Great Aunt Dot in her Micra doing 25mph, when WVM behind caught up and decided to drive so close behind I couldn't see his headlights (it was at night). As it was safe to do so, I overtook Micra driver with some brisk acceleration and settled onto the speed limit (too many wobbly handed laser guided police around to risk much more). WVM soon followed suit, understandably wanting to get past Micra woman. But he then caught up with me and got back with 20cm of my rear end. As the road in front was pretty clear and safe for him to overtake I thought I might try and encourage him to do so. Afterall, he did seem keen to go faster than me, and I've got no right to prevent him from doing so if he wishes. So I slowed down a little keeping a tighter left line... no overtaking. Slowed even more and waved him past... still no move. Came to a virtual standstill waving frantically... still nothing. Stopped, and he finally went past, though being so close he had a right problem getting around me. He carried on at about 42mph, so I followed him at a nice big distance.

Later on he turned off and I carried on, but we later re-met in opposite directions at a quiet junction in some minor roads. As he was there waiting at a giveway I plucked up courage to wind the window down and had a word (I was stopped with a clear road, had an escape route). He was surprisingly articulate and polite considering circumstances. He said he was driving well back from me... at least 2 metres!! OK it was really a lot less than that, but even 2m is way too close! He just said that was how he normally drived and no-one has even complained. Clearly timid drivers not standing up to him. I asked him why he didn't overtake, and he said he thought I didn't want him to! I told him you don't have to get permission from another car to overtake, just do it if it safe to do so. Anyway we chatted for quite a long time, and ended up being rather cordial with each other. He did agree to try and give a bit more space in future, so I think it ended on a reasonable note. He was Greek and learnt to drive over there, where (from my experience of driving there) they tend to drive very close as a matter of normality. He certainly didn't come across as an aggressive person when talking to him.

Sorry for this being a bit long and rambling!

Intimidation, what do i do? - apm
Slightly off-topic, I saw something incredible on the M25 anticlock, bit before the Dartford Tunnel, the other morning. I'm in the outside lane, at about 75, pass a dark blue civic, the guy is READING A NEWSPAPER, propped on his steering wheel!! It was a tabloid, from the size & colours (surprise, surprise!).


Alex.
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Dr Alex Mears
Seat Leon Cupra
If you are in a hole stop digging...unless
you are a miner.
Intimidation, what do i do? - islandman
Slightly off-topic, I saw something incredible on the M25 anticlock, bit
before the Dartford Tunnel, the other morning. I'm in the
outside lane, at about 75, pass a dark blue civic, the
guy is READING A NEWSPAPER, propped on his steering wheel!! It
was a tabloid, from the size & colours (surprise, surprise!).



Surprised he wasn't eating his breakfast as well!
Intimidation, what do i do? - L'escargot
<< the
guy is READING A NEWSPAPER, propped on his steering wheel!!


Very inconvenient. If only we had on-line newspapers readable via a head-up display.....!
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L\'escargot.
Intimidation, what do i do? - SteVee
>>Driving on a duel carriageway with roadworks,<<
ahh there's your problem :-)
Dual carriageways should be ok.

More seriously - why do the police tailgate ?
When they've chosen to follow me, they've done so *very* closely. are they:
1) saving fuel
2) trying to push me into speeding
3) making sure they remain a fixed distance so their speed reading is admissable in court

I very rarely respond to tailgaters / or any other drivers - I have always regretted getting involved in such incidents
Intimidation, what do i do? - thallium81
Stuart, I sympathise with you. Recently I have been driving at a rate of more than 40K miles annually and I come across some crazy drivers. My suggestion is to ignore completely any driver who attempts to intimidate you and as soon as it is safe, to allow them to pass. Very often they are one or two vehicles ahead at the next hold up and fuming whilst I am cool and calm. Lets face it, missing an appointment however crucial is of no consequence compared to a nasty crash.
Intimidation, what do i do? - Thommo
I am a large bloke fit and as an ex pretty good amateur boxer well up for looking after myself but I do not get involved in such situations.

When they occur I just think of the name Kenneth Noye.

Young bloke, fit, probably showing off in front of his girl is going to give that old geezer in the 4 wheel a right pasting...
Intimidation, what do i do? - hillman
Pretend that you didn't see him, and then accidently let him pass you. You'll probably catch up with him at the next set of lights. People like that often suffer high blood presure and have heart attacks and strokes at the wheel. Get him in front where you can see him.
Intimidation, what do i do? - legacylad
Driving an 8 year old maroon (fading fast) low tech VW van I am accustomed to being tailgated by all and sundry. I have done the same 30 mile rural commute for several years, at least 5 times a week so know every bump and camber of my journey. Tonight I was tailgated for several miles before the offending vehicle overtook on the one and only long straight.At this point I was doing 60ish, not that I slow much for the bends.Within a couple of miles I had caught the vehicle, which only seemed to go fast in a straight line, and it was now tailgating Timmy the Tractor (a JCB thing on steroids). She was so close she had no idea what was coming the other way so unfortunately I had to overtake them both on a wide sweeping bend at a leisurely 40mph.
Smug or what.
ps When I did pull up at a Pelican xing, in one of the few villages en route, I was tempted to get out and open the rear doors to show that there was no room inside, but Mrs TG was too close and the sarcasm would have been wasted!
Intimidation, what do i do? - Kevin
One of my neighbours (a surveyor) insists that other drivers seem to be less aggressive whenever one of his dayglow yellow jackets is visible inside the car.

Kevin...
Intimidation, what do i do? - Andy P
It's partly for this reason (although mainly for recording crashes) that I keep a disposable camera in the car. If someone gets out, I take their picture (not that it's happened yet).
I'm sometimes tempted to fit a cheap digital camera in the back window with a remote release.....



Andy
Intimidation, what do i do? - NowWheels
Several contributors to this thread seemed to have missed the crucial point of Stuart's post which started the thread.

The incident occurred in "a single coned off lane that last for around 2 miles with nowhere else to go" -- no way to let the tailgater overtake.
Intimidation, what do i do? - Ronnie
I always find that a good blast on the front window washers will often make a tail-gater back off quickly. Whether this will have the desired effect on a nutter in a 16 wheeler is another question however...

Intimidation, what do i do? - stokie
Stuart,

I used to get angry at tailgaters (still do occasionally). Then I took the Institute of Advanced Motorists course. They point out all your driving faults, one of mine was reacting - even a small gesture is 'red mist' and for a second you're out of control of your car.

Another way to cope it to feel sorry for them. How awful to be so stressed that they need to take it out on fellow road users.

I find if you hold a steady course, with no gestures, some back off.

Stokie
Intimidation, what do i do? - Sponge
I remember an occasion where my wife and I were going on holiday. We had only been driving 5 minutes when a 'gentleman' in a Metro, of all cars, started to hover on my bumper. Now this was a 30mph road and I was travelling at 35ish, not prepared to go any faster. The road is a wide one and snakes left and right. As the road straightened, prior to going left, he started to overtake. There was oncoming traffic, but as the road is wide he squeezed inbetween us.

I spoke to my wife, saying something along the lines of, "Look at this plonker!" He must have understood what as I was saying, as combined with my determination not to alter my driving style, he mouthed of and waved a few fingers at me.

Anyway, as is usually the case, we met up again further down the road. He was in the wrong lane, so I passed him. This enraged him even further. So much so that further down the road he overtook again. Only this time the road is very narrow and despite there being lots of oncoming traffic he drove for a good 500metres side by side. Other cars were flashing and beeping their horns, having to brake and swerve violently to avoid a head on collision. He was totally oblivious to all of it; as he was too busy looking at me giving it some verbal.

As I said earlier, we were going on holiday and my wife had her digital camera on her knee. So I told her to take a few pictures. Well! What a reaction. You should have seen his face! He went from a Bulldog to a little kitten in an instant. I then told my wife to call my father as I thought this guy was going to follow me. (He used to be a Boxer in the Navy and is still a bit 'handy'.) My father only lives around the corner, so I drove to his house. He was waiting in the street when I got there. The guy did follow me, pulled over at the same time and got out. I got out, adrenaline pumping, expecting a fight. But I couldn?t have been so wrong. He was all apologetic. Scared stiff we would report him. He admitted to driving like an idiot; promised not to do it again, only if we would destroy the film! I explained it was a digital camera and pretended to delete the photographs. We then went our separate ways. Needless to say, I still have the photographs as I was concerned the guy knew where my dad lived and might come back for revenge - he never did.

I always keep a camera in the car now, but have since learnt that digital photographs wouldn?t be admissible, so I have a cheap disposable one now.

I would advise that in instances where you think you are going to be followed, is drive to a Police station.


Intimidation, what do i do? - cockle {P}
Had the greatest pleasure of a tailgater getting his comeuppance last week.
I was overtaking a line of cars doing 35 ish in the inside lane of a dual carriageway 40 limit when a Golf came racing up behind me and sat right on my rear bumper. I stuck to the limit and when I finished overtaking, there wasn't a gap large enough to pull over before, I pulled over and he roared off, just in time to get up to a nice 50ish just as he reached the speed camera, which seemed to get a couple of really nice pictures of his rear. If only he hadn't been concentrating so hard on sticking as close to my tail as he could, you never know, he might have seen the camera.
I'm not really nasty but the way he was driving he probably deserved the points anyway.
Intimidation, what do i do? - hillman
I had an episode with a string vest Adonis in Germany. I was driving on the autobahn in a Golf 1.4 hire car with three workmates as passengers. When I tried to overtake Adonis he matched my speed. How ever fast I drove (140 kph), or however slow (15kph), he matched me exactly so that I could not get back into the inside lane. I was getting worried because I didn't know how far away my exit was. I was either going too slow and risked being rear ended, or too fast for a brand new car and risked ruining the engine. Then his girl passenger, a real beauty queen with a young baby on her knee, snapped something to him and he suddenly swerved off over the rumble strips and onto the exit road. He had been so engrossed in persecuting me that he almost missed his exit.
Intimidation, what do i do? - spikeyhead {p}
I always keep a camera in the car now, but have
since learnt that digital photographs wouldn?t be admissible, so I have
a cheap disposable one now.
I would advise that in instances where you think you are
going to be followed, is drive to a Police station.

Not true, I'm sure one of the legals here can provide some more details.
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Intimidation, what do i do? - turbo11
I usually brake test them-most of the time they get the message.
Intimidation, what do i do? - k9
I've had a similar experience Stuart, on the M25. In this case a (large white) van tailgated me before eventually undertaking me and then took offence when I made use of his later mistake and overtook him (legally).

He then got quite upset and undertook me again, slowing down and swerving into my path to prevent me overtaking. In short I considered his actions to be dangerous and likely to cause an accident. So I dialled 999 and reported him and dropped back.

The police take these cases seriously. The blue light came past me less than 10 mins later ahd WVM was pulled over.

If you feel threatened, you are quite entitled to dial 999. DO NOT react to them in any way and definately don't use any hand gestures. Imagine the whole lot is caught on CCTV - so you don't want to be accused of inflaming the situation.
Intimidation, what do i do? - Imagos
Thank you for contributions. Going to spend this evening reading them carefully.
Intimidation, what do i do? - L'escargot
Stay cool and pretend that you haven't noticed, and then just hope that no damage to your car ensues. Avoid a personal confrontation at all costs.
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L\'escargot.
Intimidation, what do i do? - mss1tw
The best one I had was with a gas van driver assuming roundabout priority had changed from priority from right to left.

Screaming abuse at the top of his lungs from his fully liveried British Gas van, I responded with as much vigour, for a while. But it's funny the calming effect that turning round and pointing a Nokia 6230 at his van had. I didn't even take any pictures, I'd just had enough.
Intimidation, what do i do? - bedfordrl
A few years back we were coming off the slip joining the M3, looking back down motorway was one lorry and that was all, he was was quite a way back so I picked up speed and joined the motorway.
Looking in the rear view mirror I could see him flashing his lights and wondered if something had fallen off the Land Rover (it was elderly).
About a minute and a half later ,whilst i was wondering why he was still flashing , he caught up with us and vitually rubbed his bumper on the back of the Land Rover.
I had all the family on board (wife and three kids) and was a little concerned with what he was up to.
He then overtook slowly and when he was alongside he slowly came across, i could not believe what he was doing until his rear wheel started rubbing my bull bar, all I could do was swerve left off the road.
We eventually caught up with him and as we came off the motorway i speeded up so i could have a look at this idiot, and to my surprise he was an old bloke and not a young git.
I wish we had taken his number but we did not.
I presume that he did not like LandRovers or prefered to the motorway to himself.
Glen
Intimidation, what do i do? - Darkheart
I think everyone runs into something like this sooner or later, it's just a sad fact of life these days.

I had an incident about a year ago while on the Bradford ring-road at night. I was going down a section of road which bends and has lots of lights which are often green most of the time so the traffic can travel quite fast (~40mph).

A kid ran out into the road in front of me, he was asian and wearing black so I only saw him at the last second and slammed the anchors on, I missed him by inches. The kid ran off without even looking at me but that wasn't the problem. The problem was the 19-20 year old and his 3 beered-up friends behind me that turned up 3 seconds later and almost went into the back of me because he wasn't looking where he was going and had seen all the lights on green.

He ended up swerving round me into the left turn lane to avoid hitting me. The guy was absolutly incensed that I had stopped at a GREEN light, obivously wasn't going to listen to my side of the story and chased me up to the next set of lights which were on red. He was screaming at me to wind my window down and get out of the car. Fortunatly I kept my cool, waited for him to get out of his car (pausing to get something out of his boot, I don't know what) and then (now that the lights where green) I drove off and left him standing the middle of the road.

Darkheart