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What causes Road Rage - TheGrocer
Driving along minding my own business, right speed, right lane, aware of other road users etc etc. Travel round a roundabout keeping in my lane and overtaken by hooting and gesticulating car and driver plus wife and 2 kids in the back.

The wife points the naughty finger up at me and the husband has the look of satan on him whislt mouthing something that sounds like thumping bump?

I stil dont know what I did nor does my wife and kids who were sitting in the car with me. The car drives off at speed still with driver gesticulating like a mad man with the 2 kids in the back looking frightened. My kids ask "Dad, whats wrong with that man?" and It gets me thinking. I am seeing more and more of ths type of behaviour from perfectly normal looking people who turn into demons the momment something upsets them.

Question 1: To answer my daughters question..Whats wrong with that man or anyopne else who behaves like that.
Question 2: What happened to self control and tollerance of other drivers
Question 3: Is the answer to 1 & 2 the congested roads and world we live in have caused this problem

I worry for my children as they start to learn to drive that they will face more and more of this sort of aggression



\" Keep doing the same old thing, youll get the same old thing, try something different today!\"
What causes Road Rage - trancer
Why did he do it?, because a family man in an new E-class isn't likley to give chase, drag him out of the car and give him a sound thrashing. Anyone want to guess if mr roadrager would have reacted the same way if came across a clapped out Sierra filled with 4 or 5 hard looking, nutters?. 8-)
What causes Road Rage - Adam {P}
Funny story about road rage.

I was driving along the motorway with 3 mates in the car and I was overtaking a few trucks in the middle lane. I was doing about 85 - 90 so was gliding past pretty quick when this 51 plate Clio shot behind me flashed it's lights and beeped it's horn. So I think "What the hell?" look at the speedo jsut to make sure I hadn't someone slowed to 30! Couldn't go anywhere as I was in the outside lane and the middle lane was still full of trucks so I accelerated past them and indicated into the middle lane.

Whilst I was doing it one of my mates asked if I knew them as that was the most logical explanation for their attitude. As they went past me, we all looked inside. A young lass was driving with 2 weedy looking lads in the car. They all looked over at us as (one giving the..er..."Victory England" sign but then they froze.

We never knew them and I can only guess that the sight of three big lads (2 with skinheads I might add!) or my face of course was very scary. They broke hard, and cut in behind us and must have slowed to 60 judging by the gap I was leaving.

What made them so scared I don't know. What made them beep and flash when there was nowhere to go is also a mystery. I could understand if I was in the outside lane for no reason doing 60 but I wasn't.

Crazy.
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Adam
What causes Road Rage - Aprilia
A lot of people are under too much pressure from all sorts of sources - financial, work pressure, not enough time etc etc. People are too busy to live these days. Just one tiny little thing pushes them over the edge.
There was a US film with Michael Douglas - he gets stressed in a traffic queue and goes on a shooting rampage.
British people need to work less, borrow less, buy less stuff and relax and enjoy life more.
What causes Road Rage - blue_haddock
There was a US film with Michael Douglas - he gets
stressed in a traffic queue and goes on a shooting rampage.


An excellent film by the name of "Falling Down"
What causes Road Rage - Thommo
This will get way off motoring PDQ but Aprilia is right. As a society we are under too much pressure, mainly financial pressure and these days one little thing and we kick off.

Without going in to details I got in a road rage thing recently and went from Mr. Calm to boiling point in 10 seconds flat.

Bit much with the kids in the car...

What causes Road Rage - Garethj
I think it's partially down to more traffic - lots of times I see car drivers pull out of junctions in an unsafe manoeuvre because they've been waiting for so long. Things like this tend to snowball too.

I've no idea what you did wrong, but it must have been pretty serious - did you kick their grandmother earlier perhaps?
What causes Road Rage - Stuartli
Calm to boiling point in 10 seconds flat.>>


As long as that..:-)

I've found that it's the female drivers who are often even worse than the men these days.

I'm pretty quick to get uptight about some of the more diabolical driving I see most days and, on occasions, I've given a somewhat rude sign when I've felt it warranted.

But compared to the hand gesturing or highly aggressive antics/manoeuvres of some of the younger members of the opposite sex it's tame in comparison.
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What causes Road Rage - PW
Might just be pure envy of someone who's worked hard, and got a nice car from their own efforts whilst thinking the world owes them a favour.


What causes Road Rage - GrahamF1
I find the only way to avoid frustration on today's roads is to adopt the 'if it happens, it happens' attitude. Doesn't stop people having a rage at you for no reason, but you enjoy life a lot more.

There isn't much to it. Just never rush and accept the circumstances - leaving in plenty of time always helps too. I'm lucky in that my boss didn't mind that I was an hour late for work due to a road-closing crash on the A1 this morning.
What causes Road Rage - Aprilia
Might just be pure envy of someone who's worked hard, and
got a nice car from their own efforts whilst thinking the
world owes them a favour.


What??
What causes Road Rage - Adam {P}
The Grocer's just bought an E320.

E320 = (very) Nice car.
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Adam
What causes Road Rage - PW
Sorry Aprilia, will try and make my thoughts clearer in future.

Thanks for explaining Adam.

Pete.
What causes Road Rage - Big Bad Dave
I suffer from rage in general, I don?t need a ton of metal around me to get me to boiling point, in fact I?m much more chilled out in the car with one hand on the wheel and top tunes on the stereo. And I very rarely, if ever, drift over the speed limit these days, not having to watch for cameras or plod is just so much more relaxing. I?m more likely to get wound up with people in supermarkets or dilly dalliers walking down Oxford Street. A couple of years ago I got this bee in my bonnet about cyclists going through red lights at Oxford Circus as I was crossing and I took to trying to hit them in the face with a rolled up Telegraph.

Big blokes who shout at small girls in cars are my pet hate. That is totally out of order and completely inexcusable.
What causes Road Rage - GrahamF1
That should be two hands on the wheel Dave...

Unless of course you have only one hand, in which case I apologise unreservedly.
What causes Road Rage - L'escargot
It?s all part of the general decline in moral standards. Violence is now seen by a large proportion of the population to be acceptable. Fifty years ago there was little violence. If someone annoyed you, you just ignored it. Nowadays, if you as much as inadvertently make eye contact with someone you are likely to get the response ?Who you looking? at?? followed by a punch-up.

A policy of zero tolerance would help greatly. These days very few people seem to know where to draw the line between right and wrong.

Morality goes up and down in cycles, but unfortunately I don?t think that it will get significantly better in our lifetime.


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L\'escargot by name, but not by nature.
What causes Road Rage - Aprilia
Fifty years ago there was little violence. If someone
annoyed you, you just ignored it. Nowadays, if you as much
as inadvertently make eye contact with someone you are likely to
get the response ?Who you looking? at?? followed by a punch-up.


Yes, I agree. There was a recent 'survey' (I saw it on Teletext) which found that the UK had the highest rate of road-rage in Europe. I can well believe it. British people are generally quite agressive, especially in the evenings. A few weeks ago I was wandering around in Munich after 10pm and felt pretty safe - I wouldn't feel the same in most British cities.
There is also no longer any feeling of 'national identity', we are a collection of disconnected 'communities' and interest groups so there is a lot of 'them and us' agression (and this is not, as many would have us believe, confined soley to the residents of council estates).
What causes Road Rage - Big Bad Dave
"That should be two hands on the wheel Dave..."

If there?s no one next to me I tuck my left hand under the passenger headrest and spread out, but if I?m singing along to the Stone Roses I have to hold my pretend microphone. That?s if I?m not drumming on the steering wheel. I like to drum to live Genesis cds and of course, slap bass to 80s tracks and air guitar for Guns n Roses. I tell ya, there?s nothing further from my mind than road rage.

What causes Road Rage - Pugugly {P}
The world is full of very strange and derranged people. A large number of them have cars.
What causes Road Rage - BazzaBear {P}
The world is full of very strange and derranged people. A
large number of them have cars.

Is that an answer to the road rage question? Or a comment on Dave's interesting dtriving habits he just revealed? ;)
What causes Road Rage - madux
I'd be more worried about Adski ferrying skinheads about. Was this through choice?
What causes Road Rage - mfarrow
I'd be more worried about Adski ferrying skinheads about. Was this
through choice?


Now now let's not be stereotyping, if Adam wants to have no hair and a gold loop earing in his left ear then that's up to him :-D

Seriously though I know a perfectly respectable guy who just goes skinhead because it looks better (I agree!).

Back to motoring it may have been Adam's turn at taxi service and got whoever was travelling with whom. I one thought I was picking up two people I knew from the bottom of town and it turned into 6, none of whom I know nor have seen since.

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What causes Road Rage - madux
Sorry, I probably just have a thing about skinheads.
When I was growing up they were either just really poor kids from deprived council estates or, erm......skinheads.
Being badly beaten-up by the shaven ones at age 12 can not have helped.
So Adamski has a shaved head and an earing?
Why, in that case he must be a gay skinhead!
What causes Road Rage - Adam {P}
Woah woah woah!!! - back it up a little here Gents.

Firstly, I don't have a skinhead or an earing! I used to have a skinhead back in the bad old days but now just a good old short back and sides.

Mike's obviously been there before - I was taxi service yes - en route to pick up someone else actually! It was through choice though - to be fair - it was my turn!

P.S. I'm not gay

:-)
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Adam
What causes Road Rage - tack
It isn't just road rage. There is shopping trolley rage (try getting close to the Tesco doors at opening time before the pensioners and you get an earful. Pavement rage (i.e. someone walking slower than the one behind) 10 items or less rage (just try to get into the short queue with 11 items in your basket without hearing a "Tutt Tutt") Bus queue rage, standing near the train doors rage, having to wait one minute longer in the queue rage, breathing loudly rage, mobile phone rage, parking outside someone else's house rage, rage against rage rage.

Everyone is in a rage, tense, stressed....too much information rage.

Phew....I need a holiday. DOH! Plane delay rage!
What causes Road Rage - Dave E
The above sums it all up perfectly. It is because we live in a horrible, mean spirited and very overcrowded little country that is living on past glories and has been for the last 60 years. We have too high an opinion of ourselves, "best police force, fire-brigade, post-office, blah, blah in the world", don't make me laugh. We treat each and every one of our fellow people with contempt, witness the current daily discourse on the cult of "the chav".

We do not embrace our cultural heritage in any level. Name an English folk song or something "traditionally" English, other than something like the Royal Family or Beefeaters, which we parody anyway.

To be honest I think the big problem is, we do not appear to have any proper sense of identity and if we do try to show it,it is trampled on sharpish. We are governed by what Paxman called laughably the Scottish Raj, but he has a point.

It is very, very, very depressing. I would leave tomorrow if I could.

I think I need to lie down!





What causes Road Rage - djcj
You see if the entrance to the shop was wide enough, they would drive into the shop and park next to the tills!!!
What causes Road Rage - djcj
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Colney Heath. Mini roundabout. I've come from the M25 direction. Turn left at the mini roundabout and there is a big 4 wheel drive parked on the zig-zag's One wheel on the pavement. SHE is on the 'phone.
I hit the horn ( air, quite loud,) got a disgusted look from the LARGE woman in the Land Cruiser. If you know this area you will know where I mean. Just round a blind corner, on the zig-zags of a zebra crossing. Shop opposite.

I nearly offered her a copy of the Highway Code.

Clive.
What causes Road Rage - mfarrow
about 4 months ago (yes 4!) a junction was changed from left/straight/right in the town centre to straight on only. Plenty of cars seem to not catch on early on but most now have.

Anyway today I saw a car indicate and turn left at the traffic lights. Police vehicle right behind him went straight on and I don't think even noticed him. Might as well have saved council money IMHO and kept the junction how it was.

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What causes Road Rage - catcher
'I stil dont know what I did nor does my wife
and kids who were sitting in the car with me'.


I bet the little old man with trilby and travelling at 40 mph in the middle lane of the M6 can't see what he's doing wrong either!

What causes Road Rage - L'escargot
I bet the little OLD man with trilby and travelling at
40 mph in the middle lane of the M6 can't see
what he's doing wrong either!


With any luck, we all reach OLD age eventually. Stop being ageist. One day, catcher, you will probably be slagged off by some young whippersnapper for being OLD.

(I'd better go and sit down quietly before I get Old Age Rage!)
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L\'escargot by name, but not by nature.
What causes Road Rage - trancer
"One day, catcher, you will probably be slagged off by some young whippersnapper for being OLD."

If he doesn't get banned by the mods for taking cheap shots at HJ. 8-)
What causes Road Rage - catcher
Sorry L'escargot, didn't realise it was you on the M6!

Seriously, I didn't mean to offend anyone whether they are 'old' or wear a trilby - I was merely trying to use a typical stereotype to make the point that perhaps The Grocer had done something to upset the other driver without realising it.
On the subject of road rage - I try to stay calm when driving (difficult sometimes!). You never know what the other person might do if the situation escalates. It is sad that people can be so intolerant of others.
What causes Road Rage - helicopter

I used to think that I was quite restrained until a few years back we were caught in town traffic and helicopter jr who was about two at the time uttered the immortal line to the car in front 'come on you stupid bleep get a bleep bleep move on'....

BTW I am a skinhead also - no hair just a skinhead.