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83 years old - Giving up Licence - oldroverboy.

Dog walking friend, very nice lady, was considering giving up driving when her insurance comes up for renewal.. but things have changed..

She had for the first time in her life 2 speeding tickets in the space of a week in a 30 zone. (before, nothing ever)

first one came, was offered an awareness course, then 2nd one came, so has paid and taken points and made the decision, one because of cars age, 2007 corsa 1.4 design, and insurance costs at renewal with the age and points in consideration.

She is not at all upset, lives 100 yards from a bust stop with daytime buses.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - craig-pd130

I'd like to think that I'll have the awareness and wisdom to know when it's time to give up, before matters are taken out of my hands. It can't be an easy decision to make.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - gordonbennet

The hell that is modern motoring and traffic, if public transport was reliable running at convenient times and safe, with the streets and other people safe to be around too, i'd gladly give up on cars.

Edited by gordonbennet on 20/05/2019 at 11:20

83 years old - Giving up Licence - FP

Whenever I can, I use the bus. As I have the OAP's bus pass, it makes sense.

Living in one of the nicer areas of Hemel Hempstead (yes - they do exist!) I'm very fortunate in being less than five minutes' walk from the nearest bus stop, from where I can get into the town centre, or, in the opposite direction, to St Albans station from where I can get a train to London.

I'm currently receiving support (physio etc.) post-cancer in Watford and get there as well (without changing) from the same bus stop.

Incidentally, I don't find any of the streets or the people where I go to be unsafe; mind you, I'm not out late evenings.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - gordonbennet
Incidentally, I don't find any of the streets or the people where I go to be unsafe; mind you, I'm not out late evenings.

That is mainly what i was referring to.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - madf

Public transport don't like bees on buses. Or trains. Or Taxis

83 years old - Giving up Licence - SLO76
“Whenever I can, I use the bus. As I have the OAP's bus pass, it makes sense.”

If everyone had so much sense our roads would be much quieter and nicer places and the environment healthier too. I see loads of pensioners (my mother included) who jam up our roads nipping to the shops or going into town for a natter despite the free bus pass gathering cobwebs in their pockets.

The bus is going to be running anyway so take a journey out of the system, clear a parking space, save yourself some money, help my shares and keep me in overtime.

Thanking you!

Edited by SLO76 on 20/05/2019 at 13:51

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Andrew-T
The bus is going to be running anyway so take a journey out of the system, clear a parking space, save yourself some money, help my shares and keep me in overtime.

The bus will only 'run anyway' as long as there is a reasonable number of passengers, as you know. I believe quite a few services have been lost, especially in rural parts where they are needed most. But off-peak, most users are pensioners (like me) which can't be a great money earner for the operators. But as has been said many times, one's own car is more convenient than a bus, especially in poor weather - and as long as you can park it somewhere.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - SLO76
“The bus will only 'run anyway' as long as there is a reasonable number of passengers, as you know. I believe quite a few services have been lost, especially in rural parts where they are needed most. But off-peak, most users are pensioners (like me) which can't be a great money earner for the operators.“

As they say, use it or lose it.

If it wasn’t for the concession passes there’d be hardly any buses on the roads off-peak. I’m all in favour of the oldies getting free travel but if the general public knew how much the younger concession passengers are burning in unnecessary travel there would be outcry. By unnecessary I mean simply going on a jolly. I regularly see physically able-bodied people who get free travel (accept you can’t always tell to look) running up hundreds of pounds a week in fares tax payers must fund. One family in particular are abusing it in appalling fashion.
83 years old - Giving up Licence - Glaikit Wee Scunner {P}

Heard/read this complaint from drivers several times.

It's important for everyone's health and mental well being to get out and jolly well enjoy themselves. Many people are lonely and suffer from depression. Socialising is necessary.

I'd rather not drive into my local town and I use the bus regularly as an oap. Yes, one day I used it 3 times. I love my free bus pass and use it for business and pleasure trips. I am much more active using the busses and go places that I'd not take my car to.

You'd probably assess me as physically able bodied, but my GP and hospital specialists do not.

I think bus drivers are great and our local ones are very friendly.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - SLO76
I object to those who overuse it. I see people who jump on buses to go exploring. One family in particular essentially run up hundreds of pounds a week in fares going nowhere. Is this fair when vital resources are being restricted elsewhere?

The NHS could do with a cash injection, our Police forces have seen budget cuts and our armed forces are a fraction of what they were as recently as the 1990’s. Yet here we are throwing hundreds of millions away yearly on people going on nonstop bus rides for free.

Yes the genuinely disabled should have a free pass, ditto the elderly but otherwise it should have limits. Why should drug addicts and the bone-idle have unlimited free travel when the rest of us struggle to fund it? I see abuse of this system daily with concession plus one cards (meaning you’re not able to get yourself on the bus) being deployed by obviously physically able people to take friends and family on wee joyrides some even used to earn money as they take cash to get them on the bus. One guy locally is very obviously doing this but again it’s not in the bus companies interests to stop it.

I’d limit younger concession card holders who are physically fit to two possibly four journeys a day to stop the wholesale abuse of the system.
83 years old - Giving up Licence - Andrew-T
I object to those who overuse it. I see people who jump on buses to go exploring.

I don't see anything wrong in that, as long as they aren't preventing others (especially fare-paying ones) using the bus - and as you say, SLO, they are helping to support the service.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - SLO76
“I don't see anything wrong in that, as long as they aren't preventing others (especially fare-paying ones) using the bus - and as you say, SLO, they are helping to support the service.”

As a bus driver I approve, as a tax payer I despise it. They aren’t helping support anything, it’s a waste of tax payers money to have people making loads of unnecessary journeys for free.
83 years old - Giving up Licence - CHarkin

I'd like to think that I'll have the awareness and wisdom to know when it's time to give up, before matters are taken out of my hands. It can't be an easy decision to make.

I agree with that and hope I have the bottle to do it myself when the time comes. I think part of the problem is older retired people often don't drive enough to keep their skill sharp.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Engineer Andy

One of the main issues with giving up driving or your car (for whatever reason) is that you then have no personal way of lugging heavier loads/larger amounts of shopping home.

This, I suppose, could mean either putting up with grocery shopping more often for less items (more expensive as you can't buy in bulk [2 for 1s, etc]) so you can manage it by walking or on the bus (not enough storage for everyone) or you take another occasional financial hit by goin home by taxi - not so much of an issue if its very occasionally, as it would be more than outweighed by not having to run a car.

What I would advocate, especially for OAPs is to make up for not driving by getting out and about more often (especially if your area has free bus travel) and walking as much as possible, as I've seen quite a few OAPs go downhill health-wise very quickly after giving up driving because they felt the alternative was daunting, rely too heavily too early on having groceries, etc delivered. You also get to meet and interract with other people, which seems to keep the mind sharper for longer.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Andrew-T

This, I suppose, could mean either putting up with grocery shopping more often for less items (more expensive as you can't buy in bulk [2 for 1s, etc]) so you can manage it by walking or on the bus (not enough storage for everyone) ....

One way round that problem is to get your weekly groceries delivered. If you can choose the time, the cost of delivery can be almost nothing, so probably cheaper than getting your car out. We don't do that often, but it's a useful facility.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - RT

This, I suppose, could mean either putting up with grocery shopping more often for less items (more expensive as you can't buy in bulk [2 for 1s, etc]) so you can manage it by walking or on the bus (not enough storage for everyone) ....

One way round that problem is to get your weekly groceries delivered. If you can choose the time, the cost of delivery can be almost nothing, so probably cheaper than getting your car out. We don't do that often, but it's a useful facility.

Of necessity, we've done that twice in the last year - sadly, Asda substituted items despite flagging no substitutes on the order and with no paper produced made checking at point of delivery difficult - in future we'd only do it for items which aren't frozen, chilled or fresh.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Andrew-T

<< Asda substituted items despite flagging no substitutes on the order and with no paper produced made checking at point of delivery difficult - in future we'd only do it for items which aren't frozen, chilled or fresh. >>

Try Ocado - we've never had any substitutions, but I think once we got something extra that we hadn't ordered. Always get a full printout, and they take back all the plastic bags for reuse.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Leif

I couldn't give up driving as it means independence. Public transport is pants in deepest East Hampshire. One neighbour gave up driving at ~86 when someone wrote off her car, not her fault, but she now has dementia anyway. Her house mate is still driving at 92, with no problems. The one at the end who is about 87 still drives. The 102 year old on the corner does not drive, but she is not physically able to anyway. Nor is the 94 year old next door, as she has dementia.

Round my way dementia is the main reason not to drive, but in that case you need a carer anyway.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Engineer Andy

I couldn't give up driving as it means independence. Public transport is pants in deepest East Hampshire.

Sadly that's a very common problem these days outside of the more urban areas. Even in my parents' home town, whilst they live only 50m from the bus stop that goes to the town centre and major supermarket, buses are every 15-20 minutes if they are on time (not quite so bad out of the rush hour), but they are (even for them) within 20-25 minutes walking distance of the shop, so walk in good weather and take the car when not - they'd prefer not to be standing in the cold and rain waiting for a bus that might not turn up (no handy indicators to say when like in the cities).

Even worse for those in the surrounding villages - they'll get one bus every hour, tops. In my area, which is a smaller town with a much more rural area surrounding it, it's far worse. And to top that, we recently had two new supermarkets (smaller ones) open up stores on the edge of town, but the (very infrequent) town bus service doesn't stop there, fine if you're still reasonably able bodied (the nearest stop is about 250m away on an industrial estate), not so good for those OAPs who can't walk very far unaided.

The local villages has a bus service, but is every 2+ hours and thus if you mis it either way, you've a long wait - not good if you have frozen foods etc to get home!

The new shops do have a reasonable car park though, and a bus stop ready to go! Nice to see council planning in action yet again!

83 years old - Giving up Licence - nellyjak

I dread the day when I have to give up driving..although of advancing years now I still feel totally capable (with regular eye and health checks) and I know my good lady (who is a lot younger than me) will be more that quick enough to tell me if she feels unsafe whilst I'm at the wheel..lol

I have though bought myself an electric bike..brilliant (and the Mrs. too for that matter) so at least I'm able to get around and not always have to use the car..and we of course enjoy the exercise too....win/win.!

Public transport is pants in this rural part of the UK.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Alby Back
Possibly as a result of having grown up in a busy city where even then, traffic and parking was a problem, I tend to this day to use my bike or my feet for journeys of less than 5 miles, unless of course I need to shift something big or heavy.
83 years old - Giving up Licence - Leif
Possibly as a result of having grown up in a busy city where even then, traffic and parking was a problem, I tend to this day to use my bike or my feet for journeys of less than 5 miles, unless of course I need to shift something big or heavy.

A bike makes a lot of sense for short journeys to a local shop (but not for commuting during rush hour along busy B roads). I would cycle 5 miles to the local town except that the dual carriageway is terrifying, cars doing 70 mph within a foot or two of a cyclist is downright dangerous. A proper cycle path could be built but it’d cost too much with no direct monetary return, and a cash strapped council.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Senexdriver
We’ve just returned from a couple of weeks in the mid-west of the States. Among the friends we visited was a family in rural Illinois. The senior female, the mother/grandmother/great grandmother, was 100 this year and still drives! Her licence is conditional on her not driving more than 10 miles out of the small town where they live and in that part of Illinois you’d have to drive more than 10 miles to find any other form of civilisation. That means that she just drives to the grocery store, the doctor and the rest of her family.

Interestingly, the senior citizens of the town are allowed to drive around in golf buggies. It’s all very safe as the population is only about 800 and the town is tiny. Being America, the pavements are generous and the streets are wide.
83 years old - Giving up Licence - pyruse

I'm hoping that by the time I'm no longer safe to drive, self-driving car technology has advanced to the point where I won't need to drive. I'll just summon the car and it can take me where I want to go.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - nick62

I'm fortunate to live 200 yards from a station on the Liverpool Northern Line. 4 trains an hour from about 6 a.m. until 11.30 p.m. with a 12 minute journey time to the city centre. We are having some new trains next year too, (which are actually new rather than refurbished rubbish from the south for a change). The train fare for the two of us is less than 3 hours parking.

In 10+ years we have only taken the car into town less than a handful of times. We can also have a glass or two of wine or beer with lunch, happy days.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Mike H

A bike makes a lot of sense for short journeys to a local shop (but not for commuting during rush hour along busy B roads). I would cycle 5 miles to the local town except that the dual carriageway is terrifying, cars doing 70 mph within a foot or two of a cyclist is downright dangerous. A proper cycle path could be built but it’d cost too much with no direct monetary return, and a cash strapped council.

I used to live in East Hampshire before we moved to Austria, and certainly the bus service to our village was only 3-4 times a day into our nearest town of Petersfield. The service kept being fiddled around with due to lack of usage - at one time the route continued used on to Farnham but eventually got curtailed.

Here in Austria it's different. Although the buses might "only" be every couple of hours, there is no suggestion that they have to pay their way. They are a lifeline for more remote places, run whatever the weather, and are considered a public service rather than an enterprise that has to make a profit. Our local bus runs most of the day either empty, or nearly. And they're all joined up with the railways.

Moving on to cycleways, all the main roads in our area are single carriageway, and except for short stretches all have adjacent but segregated cycle paths. In the countryside, there are usually well-signposted alternatives for cyclists to use away from the B-roads. There havrecently been cycle paths under construction on some of the roads that link the area, climbing up into the hills and back down again, which have been quite significant investments. They're seen as must-haves to encourage, and cater for, cyclists.

Just a different way of looking at things,

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Engineer Andy

Nearly empty or empty bus service - that doesn't sound like the community is bothering to make use of it. I find, even as a 40-something, that very infrequent bus (and rail) services severely restrict what you can do and where you can go, because it might mean you either have to leave home so early you have to wait around for ages at your destination for an appointment, have to do the same for the return journey or in some cases, not be able to get back because the service is restricted to peak periods only. Then you have to pay for expensive taxi home.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Avant

I can't see an answer to the vicious circle well summarised by Andy.

Rural bus service too infrequent, so few use it. Because few use it, it isn't economical to put mofre buses on. Eventually the service dies.

When we came to our Dorset village five years ago, there was one bus every other Thursday which could get you to Shaftesbury, but not back again. And the nearest shopping towns are Gillingham and Wincanton. So that service didn't last long.

I wonder if the Austrians still have their Postautobus - a joint venture with the post office where some mail was delivered by bus. I remember it from 50 years ago, but I don't think I saw a Postautobus last time we were there 2 years ago. But I do remember a notice in those buses which they helpfully translated for tourists' benefit as 'Do not interfere with the driver while he is driving'.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Andrew-T

I wonder if the Austrians still have their Postautobus - a joint venture with the post office where some mail was delivered by bus.

Don't know about Austria, but I think the Swiss still run them.

83 years old - Giving up Licence - focussed

Here in France where we are there is next to no public transport running to the outlying villages and hamlets, there are the school buses for the kids but nothing for the public.

There are no local train lines as there used to be just after WW2 so a bit of a bleak prospect if you can't drive, ride or cycle.

If you have a medical need for transport to a hospital or physio and you can't drive or have someone drive you you can get a prescription for a taxi from your doctor, partly paid for by the health service, and the rest by your medical insurance.

I've got a french driving licence to replace my UK licence which I couldn't renew at 70, which is valid for 15 years with no need for medicals or self certifying.

If the French decide to lift that I can always get a sans permis car - those little low powered cars that do about 30 mph, no licence required hence "sans permis" ie without licence.

Tedious things but keep you mobile.

The older farming types around here use old tractors as their mobility scooters - no licence required if they are farmers, no mot, cheap third party insurance and tax rebated fuel - red diesel. Favourite is the old russian Zetor tractor held together with baling twine and wire!

Edited by focussed on 24/05/2019 at 00:14

83 years old - Giving up Licence Update.... - oldroverboy.

She is giving up driving in just over a week.

Advertised her car for £1200, few people came around and tut tutted, one offered £ 500 another a bit more, but talked it down a lot.

2 minors on the mot history last dec, and also about 8 years ago.

So, I am buying it for £1000 as a runaround, couple of very minor scuffs on door mirrors, one very tiny one on rear n/s wheel arch.

Corsa 5 door 1.4 design dec 2007... 57000 miles

83 years old - Giving up Licence - Mike H

I wonder if the Austrians still have their Postautobus - a joint venture with the post office where some mail was delivered by bus.

Don't know about Austria, but I think the Swiss still run them.

They're mainly still branded as Postbus, but I've never seen a letter change hands! The railways and Postbuses are under the same management umbrella, which helps the integration.