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ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - oldroverboy.

So, till last year, we had occasional "Football" impressions on the car, when it was parked in the driveway.. Friendly polite requests met with mild aggression.

Problem solved.. neighbour concerned has a new SUV to replace his old banger and which just happens to be parked on the street as they don't have a driveway. This happens to be where the kids were playing football.

LOVELY!

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - catsdad
Result!

Perhaps you can suggest how we get our neighbours to stop storing their large goal and net set on the side garden between our houses. Its open plan but three quarters of it is ours so they sit it on our grass for weeks on end.

We get on really well but are not friends as such and I think they regard it as semi-common space. At least we don't look out onto it.

Pulling it back to cars our drives are at right angles and their visitors often park on the street facing their house about six feet off the end of our drive giving us a right-angled exit.. Easy enough to drive past in daylight but backing in on a wet night is a different matter. Again I think there is the old problem that they regard the street space in front of their house as theirs rather than the public road that facilitates our drive access too.

There is no aggression so I try to live and let live. No doubt we annoy them too.........
ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - SLO76
I did have an issue with a neighbour parking in an awkward spot opposite my mother’s driveway despite having a driveway large enough for two cars. A polite request from my mother resulted in said car being left there almost permanently so while it was away I left a cheap but road legal old trade-in on my mothers side of the road opposite the spot which blocked them from parking there since the street is only wide enough for a car to be parked on one side. Unlike them however my parking didn’t restrict their access to their own driveway. One unhappy neighbour but richly deserving of any upset. I don’t understand ignorant people.
ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - barney100

Just human nature, space is desirable and some people don't mind who they inconvenience or upset using it.

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - Andrew-T

Just human nature, space is desirable ...

Yes, first come first served - grab it. It's public property after all ?

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - Engineer Andy
I did have an issue with a neighbour parking in an awkward spot opposite my mother’s driveway despite having a driveway large enough for two cars. A polite request from my mother resulted in said car being left there almost permanently so while it was away I left a cheap but road legal old trade-in on my mothers side of the road opposite the spot which blocked them from parking there since the street is only wide enough for a car to be parked on one side. Unlike them however my parking didn’t restrict their access to their own driveway. One unhappy neighbour but richly deserving of any upset. I don’t understand ignorant people.

Some people are just lazy - where I live, another resident took to parking his car in a visitor bay (not allowed) opposite the front of his house. His two allocated spaces were only round the corner, about 25m away. We got the last laugh when he was ticketed multiple times by our parking company for numerous offences.

This may sound a trivial offence to some, but our development is near a railways station, many businesses, most properties are flats with only one allocated parking space, the most the houses get are two allocated spaces (all marked up), and we have one communal visitor space for every 5 properties, with narrow roads (so on-street parking isn't possible).

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - oldroverboy.
Result! Perhaps you can suggest how we get our neighbours to stop storing their large goal and net set on the side garden between our houses. Its open plan

What i did was to put up a trellis fence to the height allowed at the side of out garden,3" fence posts next to their footpath on my front garden, and on the front another trellis fence to 6 feet high. words were said that it was open plan, but everyone else has fences or high hedges, so I simply said that if anyone objected to mine, then they all had to come down. Have put in some grape vines and enjoy them...

Nothing more said...

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - focussed

And then there is Wimbledon fortnight - the kids drag their old tennis racquets out and the street is full of flying tennis balls bouncing off of houses and cars.

My mother caught one of the local irritants bent over, rummaging about in her front shrubs and flower bed looking for his lost tennis ball and whacked him across the ar*se with her walking stick. His whining parents called the police who attended and offered her "words of wisdom" while trying to keep straight faces.

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - catsdad
ORB Yes I could stick up a trellis but its passive aggressive to do this and then I'd be annoyed if they damaged it with wheelie bins and bikes etc as their path would be only a metre wide.

I remember as a kid the odd grumpy old man and I'm not ready to be one of those. Keyboard moaning will have to do!

It will take care of itself as they grow up or move. If the latter I will put in a couple of posts and link by chain before the new folks move in then its not so personal.

I think that there is a basic (mainly male) terrtorial instinct that kicks in with property boundaries so I try to keep a sense of proportion.

Edited by catsdad on 02/03/2019 at 17:52

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - oldroverboy.
ORB Yes I could stick up a trellis but its passive aggressive to do this and then I'd be annoyed if they damaged it with wheelie bins and bikes etc as their path would be only a metre wide.

In our case, it was youngrovergirls flower garden that was being destroyed as well and that is her relaxation when not in the hospital. As I said, the neighbours on the other side did the same, but before me, and now everyone on our side of the street had fences/hedges front and side, but only 2 out of the 6 houses have driveways.

On the subject of grumpiness, it has all settled down and now that they have a new car that they don't want full size footballs being belted into it, the problem has resolved itself.

Yes, it is a shame about "territory", but when you have to live with the damage, the litter, the uneaten food thrown into the garden and an uninterested council and police force as well as Zone wardens who refuse to do anything, then sadly trellis fences will have to do!

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - expat

trellis fences will have to do!

You could always plant some attractive ornamental shrubs with great big thorns. Here in Australia Bougainvillea has lovely flowers, grows very fast and is like a botanical razor wire. Looks lovely but you have to be very careful pruning it and you don't want to fall into it. Footballs would be punctured for sure. No doubt there will be something similar where you are.

ANY-car parked on driveway. - A cure for footballs belted into my car - oldroverboy.

You could always plant some attractive ornamental shrubs with great big thorns. Here in Australia Bougainvillea has lovely flowers, grows very fast and is like a botanical razor wire. Looks lovely but you have to be very careful pruning it and you don't want to fall into it. Footballs would be punctured for sure. No doubt there will be something similar where you are.

Pyracantha, berberis, blackthorn.

As I said before, 1 new(ish) expensive SUV that their mummy and daddy does not want damaged did the trick!

And also it saves my blood pressure from going up, and the heartbeat going funny. Also trained myself to ignore everything outside.