One of our drivers at work was infuriated by the driver in the traffic infront throwing the McDonalds junk out his window, he jumped out the cab walked up to the car picking up all the cartons and threw them back into the persons car through their drivers window with a verbal dialogue about taking them home and putting them into their own bin.
A few years ago i had an interesting, though possibly risky confrontation like that.
We live ar the end of a short cul de sac where mostly older people live, all bungalows, few people come down here, one day a car with 4 young people in it pulled up outside our neighbour's house, the driver and the front seat passenger got out and put two 500ml bottles of oil in the engine but dropped the empties on the path outside my neighbour's house.
I hoped they would pick them up, but got back into the car and the engine started up, they were just about to reverse off when i called out to the driver, who stopped, i walked calmly up, picked up the empty bottles and handed them to the driver, explaining they were nice people lived in that bungalow and it wasn't nice leaving rubbish for them, i was quite polite.
I should add at this point, the driver was of Indian or Pakistani heritage and seemed mortified that i'd had to speak to him, he apologised genuinely, the others in the car were white lads who muttered unintelligible remarks which don't need repeating here, but none of them made to get out and sort me out.
It was as plain as the nose on my ugly mug that the driver was a decent well brought up young man who for some reason had got himself friends that were not cut from the same cloth, i would like to have said as much to that young man in retrospect and i hope he thought about that exchange later and made changes to his life.
Anyway they drove off and as the car went round the corner the passenger window came open and the front seat passenger threw the bottles out on the ground, so i still had to go and pick them and put them in the bin.
Sometimes you have to do and say things that need doing and saying.
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