Given your list of requirements we would suggest starting with our guide to the best family SUVs which you can read here - www.honestjohn.co.uk/guides/best-family-suv/ All of these vehicles offer a high driving position and good levels of comfort. The vast majority of modern cars use touchscreen infotainment systems and digital instrument displays so to a degree this is unavoidable, but many offer voice control and/or steering wheel controls so you can operate many of the systems without having to take your eyes off the road. As for punctures these are for the most part unavoidable, but there is nothing to stop you from purchasing a spare wheel and associated tools, and you can mitigate the chances of a puncture by specifying reinforced tyres which have tougher sidewalls and are more puncture resistant.