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Flu jab - L'escargot
My GP has just advised me that because of my advancing years, (cheeky git!) I ought to have a flu vaccination. I've heard that some people have a bad reaction to this and actually get some sort of flu symptoms from it. Has anyone had any first-hand experience of this?
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L'escargot by name, but not by nature.
Flu jab - THe Growler
L'Escargot (Be interested to know your position on Nanny's "too much salt" campaign: sorry about that...)

When I worked with American Express the company was insistent we all got 'flu jabs each winter. I dutifully took mine and was about as much use as a one-legged man at an ass-kicking contest for about 5 days. I would have settled for the genuine article rather than the cure any time.

Doesn't take everyone that way I guess but it laid me out.
Flu jab - frostbite
Not had personal experience but my Mother had a similar reaction to Growler's.
Flu jab - L'escargot
........salt"



Kiss of death to us gasteropoda!

(Much sooner someone took the mickey than pretended I didn't exist!)
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L'escargot by name, but not by nature.
Flu jab - just a bloke
I have had full blown flu twice in my life.....
both followed having a flu jab at the insistance of my doctor who no longer insists :-)


;-) JaB
Flu jab - Dynamic Dave

My dad's been having them for years, with no probs whatsoever, but my mum reacted badly 2 years in a row.

I'm having my first flu jab this Saturday, so if I'm not around after that, you'll know the reason why.

Flu jab - Dwight Van Driver
Been having it for a number of years now. Sometimes jab day plus 2 or 3 feel a bit grot but once over it kept clear. Rather have the grot then a couple days in bed.

Best advice also take a daily garlic tablet an excellent protector against the common cold.

......and no they cannot smell you coming.

DVD
Flu jab - Mark (RLBS)
Off topic, I know.

DVD - that's about 450 cigarettes I haven't smoked so far.
Flu jab - Dwight Van Driver
Very well done that man. Hope its a cut off as opposed to cut down.

DVD

PS Now watch the weight.
Flu jab - Mark (RLBS)
cut off. A painful one.
Flu jab - henry k
cut off. A painful one.

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Well done!

I was always told that smoking was the sign of a bad technique.
Flu jab - helicopter
Garlic keeps the vampires away as well....

I recommend taking an Echinacea tablet which is also a good preventative for colds and flu.
Flu jab - Dynamic Dave
I'm having my first flu jab this Saturday,


Well apart from a slightly sore arm, no other problems to report.

Flu jab - Robbie
My GP has just advised me that because of my advancing
years, (cheeky git!) I ought to have a flu vaccination. I've
heard that some people have a bad reaction to this and
actually get some sort of flu symptoms from it. Has anyone
had any first-hand experience of this?


As a diabetic I've been getting 'flu jabs for more years than I care to remember. I've never had a reaction. However, you are only protected against the strain that is deemed to be the one that will be going around. I've also developed 'flu, despite the jab, and been very ill on a few occasions.
Experience of ANY University - Dulwich Estate
Continuing the Swansea University thread, I believe I gained a lot because in the seventies Uni was only for the few. That (v.poor) degree got me job, career and all the rest of it.

My daughter is in Year 2 and my son on the verge of making a choice. Unless it's for a specific career demanding a degree I'm not at all sure it's worth it for my kids and others like them any more.

What do you YOUNG lot think?
Experience of ANY University - Baskerville
The figures I saw recently in the Times Higher suggested someone graduating this year would on average earn around £400,000 more than a non-graduate over their lifetime at today's figures. I'd say that's worth it. However, if the students I meet are any indication of national attitudes to education, it's un-British of me to say that higher earnings were not the main reason why I went to university (in the 1980s); nor would they be if I was doing it again right now. In my experience British students are far more bothered and anxious about their earning potential than others, possibly because our degrees are so intensive and specialized (Americans don't specialize until graduate school).
Experience of ANY University - frostbite
"Unless it's for a specific career demanding a degree I'm not at all sure it's worth it for my kids and others like them any more."

Although I don't qualify as "young" any more, I totally agree.

The 'university of life' is far more appropriate for many occupations - good example being that you can always spot the teachers who have gone from school to uni and straight back to school. They have a most unrealistic approach to many aspects of life.
Experience of ANY University - SjB {P}
I agree too.

Through force of circumstance (the opportunity to live abroad), I gave up my chance of going to university. Little did I know it at the time, but in my chosen career of production management which evolved to working in the ERP software industry, I have never regretted this decision.

Along with admitted good fortune, the University of Life has thus far (20 years on) well equipped me for such a career, and I have unfortunately (truly this is not a boast, I mean unfortunately) left for dead an incredibly gifted friend (with a brain the size of a planet) who went to university and chose a similar career path, but who lacks some essential real world abilities.
Experience of ANY University - Baskerville
Guess where I've been studying in the (almost) twenty years since I did my degree ;-) But as I said earlier today in another context: the plural of anecdote is not data.
Experience of ANY University - Dalglish
Unless it\'s for a specific career demanding a degree I\'m not
at all sure it\'s worth it for my kids


agreed. you need to factor in loss of income over 3 or 4 years, and the annuity that would buy; and compare that with the debt you will build up at uni and the repayments that will cost.

apparently (see link below) - \"A third of 2003 graduates \'not in work\' Polly Curtis Tuesday August 10, 2004 \"


to help your son decide, ask him to have a look at

education.guardian.co.uk/students/graduation/story...l

and

snipurl.com/9ac3



Experience of ANY University - PoloGirl
Do I still qualify as YOUNG, given that I turn practically middle aged next week (24!! :( )

If your son and daughter know what they want to do, then I'd fully advocate doing a degree in it(e.g. teaching, medicine, marketing, Law etc, where you can get a degree in the career you want). But if they're just going to do something really broad like flippin Business Studies (leads to flippin burgers), and don't really know what they want to do with it, then it will more than likely be a waste of money, especially as they'll (you'll!) be paying about three times as much as I did to do my degree. All that does is prove that you can study at a certain level, not that you will be any good at a particular job. The exceptions to this are probably journalism (where a degree in a specialist subject like politic and NOT Journalism sets you apart from the hundreds of media graduates) and secondary teaching (where you do a PGCE after graduation).

I got a job when I finished school, worked out what I wanted to do with my life through a series of different jobs, and then went to uni. People I know who graduated at the same time as me but are two or three years younger and have just broken free of over 15 years of continuous edication just seem a bit unworldly to me, and I'm not sure university has done them any good at all. They still don't know what they want to do with their lives, and they have a lot of debt now too!

Certainly I'd advise doing a degree at some point in your life as so many jobs ask for it or require you to be "graduate calibre" as you progress in your career... but I don't think doing it when you're 18 is necessarily the best idea.

Apologies for going on a bit :)

Experience of ANY University - PhilW
DE,
"Certainly I'd advise doing a degree at some point in your life as so many jobs ask for it or require you to be "graduate calibre" as you progress in your career... but I don't think doing it when you're 18 is necessarily the best idea."

Excellent point made by PG. I'm an "oldy" so you can disregard me if you wish but so much depends upon your children. It's virtually impossible to advise because only they (and you as long as you are not trying to live your life through them!) can decide what is best. Yes, let them go to University if they want to, but if they would be happier learning a good trade (and there are plenty of those around which will give them an excellent standard of living) let them do that. There is nothing worse than going to Uni for three or more years and doing something they don't want to do, ending up with a degree they don't need and many thousands of pounds debt - or dropping out with a large debt. Much better to get a job, learn a trade, earn some money and then (maybe)decide to do a degree. They will appreciate Uni more, will have learnt from the Uni of life and will be doing something they really want to do rather than what others want them to do. As for which is the best Uni - simple answer is that it's the one which will accept you! Swansea is a fantastic place (had friends there, visited many times,) Leeds is brilliant- so my kids tell me, went to unfashionable poly myself - had a wonderful time, had friends at Sheffield, Aberdeen, Manchester, York, Durham, Loughborough, London and Cambridge - all thought they were the best Unis but my brother thought Leicester the best and my sister Hull - take your choice!!


Experience of ANY University - Lounge Lizard
Excellent post by PhilW.

I would say that a motivated skilled tradesman can earn more than an average graduate.

Whether they build up more wealth over a lifetime depends on what they do with the money. Early investment (and risk-taking) in business / shares / property / skill learning is more significant than graduate / non-graduate.
Experience of ANY University - Baskerville

>I would say that a motivated skilled tradesman can earn more than an average graduate

Yes, a given individual without a degree can earn more than the average graduate. But the average individual without a degree generally doesn't. Here are some figures from the US Bureau of Labor Statistics showing average projected lifetime earnings (2001 figures):

High School Dropout $630,000
High School Graduate $994,080
Some College $1,269,850
4 Year College Degree $1,667,700
5 or More Years of College $1,936,930

Here's a British study from the Institute of Fiscal Studies. Now this was a survey of 33 year-olds in 1991 and things have changed a bit. But I doubt they've changed that much (the US figures suggest not):

www.ifs.org.uk/education/summaryhigher.shtml

Quote:

"...men with non-degree higher education qualifications had hourly wages on average 15 per cent higher than those with just A levels; men with first degrees had hourly wages on average 21 per cent higher; and men with higher degrees had, on average, 16 per cent higher wages than those who could have gone on to higher education but did not.

...

The impact of higher education on women?s wages was found to be considerably larger than its impact on men?s wages. Women with non-degree higher education qualifications had hourly wages on average 26 per cent higher than those with just A levels; women with first degrees had hourly wages on average 39 per cent higher; and women with higher degrees had, on average, 43 per cent higher wages than this base group.

...

There are few important wage differences between those taking different subjects at higher education level."
Experience of ANY University - henry k
Horses for courses I say.

My son got the advice.
1. Do a subject that you think you will enjoy.

2. Get a reasonable degree, if possible from a good UNI and come out with a good list of contacts.

3. There are hordes of nerds out there but what employers want is people who can communicate.

He had no gap year but was well on the way to getting the well paid job he is now in during the FIRST year.

His degree subject, which he thoroughly enjoyed, was not really relevant to the job he is in.

I certainly agree with the unworldly bit. Many cannot even shake hands properly.
My children had travelled a lot with us and had been involved in many activities before and during UNI.
Good interpersonal skills courses can help. I have been on some very interesting ones.
We spent a lot of time visiting UNIs, with ours, two years early so we could revisit if required.
It was a good exercise as my daughter did not like one UNI and the thought of choosing it on paper and her being there for 6 years makes me shudder.
I appreciate that not all families or students can afford the cost or time to do the visits. I did find that some of the data on UNIs was suspect. I feel very fortunate how things have turned out especially as we both did not go to UNI.
Experience of ANY University - PhilW
"We spent a lot of time visiting UNIs, with ours, two years early so we could revisit if required."
Excellent point - wish I had remembered to mention it!! We did same - go and have a good nose round - take your kids, (why do I keep calling them kids? -young adults?) let them go through the formal bits then go and have a wander round yourself and a pint in the Union bar and find out what it's really like!!!

Experience of ANY University - helicopter
Its horses for courses.

Helicopter Jr did both a degree in History and an MPhil at Cambridge. He paid for the Masters himself and has joined one of the big four accountants at an excellent salary as a graduate trainee and will be studying for another three years from when the sky is the limit of his projected earnings .

He did History because he liked it and went to Cambridge because he wanted to get the best education he could. We did not push him at any time but assisted as far as possible financially when it became obvious from an early age that he was gifted in the brain department.

His cousin went to the local comprehensive and left school at 16 with little in the way of paper qualifications but an interest in woodwork. He now runs his own very successful carpentry and buling company and makes a very good living.

Me? - 5 'O' levels ( but I a'int doing too bad.)Sometimes you need to get experience in life to do a job and as an employer I rate experience higher than paper qualifications.
Experience of ANY University - Dulwich Estate
Plenty of posts in line with my thinking.

But, I'm surprised about the "unwordly" bit. I somehow presumed that an 18-year old living away from home managing to survive without Mum & Dad providing every need in an instant; food, drink, lifts by car, provision of loo paper just when you really need it etc., etc. might just make them a bit more equipped for life than the one who stayed at home.

Also, what about the contacts and friends for life?

I'm a little surprised too about the emphasis on the financial benefits - surely not the only reason for going?
Experience of ANY University - patently
I went to university. Why? Because I could, and I wanted to.
Experience of ANY University - kennybase
I chose to do a Chemistry degree because I enjoyed it at A Level. By the end of the 2nd year I hated it, but I stuck with it and got a good degree. Then went on to do a Masters in Engineering Physics, and once that was done I started running a Thai restaurant.
I have just left that to go to Thailand for a month before starting work for Club Med at one of their resorts.

What has this got to do with anything? Well, uni gave me more than an education. I gave me the chance to get out from under the wing and learn what was expected of ME from life - when I was out there on my own.

In my view, the education part is very important (obviously!) but it must be stressed that it is important to make the most of the social side of it. I lived with one guy who studied 7 days a week from 8am till 11pm, got a First Class degree but then couldn't get a job as he had nothing more to offer.

I turn 25 in 2 weeks (maybe this Club Med thing is a mid-mid life crisis!) but I feel that I've achieved a lot since leaving uni, and not once have I regretted going even though I know i'll never do anythig with Chemistry!
Experience of ANY University - Number_Cruncher
While I disagree with the current government's 50% target for getting students into higher education from an academic standards viewpoint, I support it wholeheartedly for the civilizing influence, and social skills it can give to students, and thence to the population in general.

number_cruncher
Experience of ANY University - Baskerville
>While I disagree with the current government's 50% target for getting students into higher education from an academic standards viewpoint...

Quite agree. But the opportunity should be there--fewer than than seven percent went twenty years ago and there were only places for that many. University is a great experience and I really feel those who don't get to go are missing out. Having said that it's a different experience from what it was two decades ago. My friends and I would have been horrified at the idea of our parents turning up at an open day or interview. I'm told by academics I know that these days you have to be quite forceful to get some of them not to sit in on interviews and answer the questions.
Experience of ANY University - henry k
In my view, the education part is very important (obviously!) but
it must be stressed that it is important to make the
most of the social side of it. I lived with one
guy who studied 7 days a week from 8am till 11pm,
got a First Class degree but then couldn't get a job
as he had nothing more to offer.

Spot on.
After the first two years med students who stay the course all pass except for the odd case. But it is a slog and no real chance of a job during the last 3 years.
The cost is frightening especially in London.
I consider it was good use for my funds to support my daughter.

My son said I am aiming for a 2/1 as I want a life. No problems for me in that.He had a excellent time. Some of them got firsts and are still not settled in a job.
Experience of ANY University - Mark (RLBS)
We recruit a lot of graduates (100 odd a year), so here is some unfair generalisations from me;

We want people who have a life, not just an education

We want people with common sense and problem solving ability

Frequently people with a first do not have a life or common sense

Your degree tells me what you can do, which is by definition finite. I am much more interested in how you manage something you don\'t know how to do

I\'m not fussed which university you went to

I\'m not fussed what degree you got unless its one of the silly subjects, which would be a negative

Subject of degree is only important for engineering type roles

a gap year back packing is old hat and unimpressive. A gap year working, on the other hand, is impressive. Especially if it was something alien to your degree. e.g. I have a great programmer who spent a year as a mechanic. I can\'t say it improved his programming, but his problem solving skills and practical approach are impressive.

And for all students in an interview, God gave you two ears and one mouth - there was probably a good reason for that. If you\'re going to speak, think first.

Understand that I\'m not impressed with academia per se. The application of learning is what I\'m worried about it.

The most important thing you can conceivably learn at university is how to learn

...................and I am buying your ability to learn and your willingness to use it.
Experience of ANY University - SpamCan61 {P}
Well I left Luton VIth form in '79 with ABC grades at A level, decided to take a gap year, got a job....and I'm still doing it*.

I don't regret not going to Uni from an academic point of view, but did regret missing the social side for a long time.

Having conducted many interviews overthe years for junior engineering / project management positions I'm always more interested in problem solving skills & time management than the candiidate's ability to pass exams.

* I do get paid about 20 times as much now, though.....Spam.
Experience of ANY University - Duchess
Mark, that is the most accurate definition of the employer's persepctive I've ever read. A copy for my personnel department and a copy for every one of my friends' teenage children!

Experience of ANY University - smokie
I'll second that Duchess - my daughter (just starting A levels) now has Mark's words in her mailbox...
Experience of ANY University - henry k
A good list DD but.
No use unless they can communicate at the right level and have a work ethic. Being a team player helps.

For decades I worked for a blue chip co that insisted in recruiting graduates as programmers. Few were good communicators. Most thought the world owed them a living.
Lots of them wanted the glamour without the graft.
The co missed out on a lot of good internal people who could be trained as programmers.
Experience of ANY University - Baskerville
>For decades I worked for a blue chip co that insisted in recruiting graduates as programmers ... Lots of them wanted the glamour without the graft

And yet Google only recruits PhDs at that sort of level.
Experience of ANY University - SjB {P}
As I wrote above, I work in the ERP software devlopment industry, and whilst my employer does indeed tout round universities looking for suitable graduates, greater emphasis is placed on specific human qualities and doing well at an extremely good aptitude test than having a top notch qualification. After all, our tool chest is largely unique, so a lot has to be taught from the ground up anyway. In fact, we have far more non-graduates than graduates throughout the company, including as developers.

The test is amazing. I was sceptical at first, but then plucked up the the courage and risked reputation by doing it myself. I had nothing to worry about in the end, and the result was me to a Tee. Same result for everyone else I know who has taken it.
Experience of ANY University - Dynamic Dave
A good list DD but.


It's not my list.

::Points finger towards one of the other moderators::
Experience of ANY University - henry k
>> A good list DD but.
It's not my list.
::Points finger towards one of the other moderators::

>>
Thanks.
RTFM or something like it.
Read first, and check your answer?
Experience of ANY University - THe Growler
Not "young" either but I side with henry k and frostbite.

For goodness sake park your degree then go out and get some real world experience. The degree per se doesn't give you anything useful to most HR managers without being backed up by something you can DO.

30 years in HR, designed and ran recruitment, training, development for two global majors whose names you would recognise at once, across 3 continents.

Graduate trainee sourcing in na Caucasion environment usually produced a preponderance of pompous little pimples who somehow thought a degree had a value in commerce other than that of actually studying successfully for it and was an instant door opener. My programmes always started these guys off at the coal face, night shifts chucking boxes around at the airport, sweeping up afterwards, that sort of stuff. 50% failure rate not uncommon. I remember one exasperated supervisor who had worked his way up the ranks by graft and determination coming up to me and asking me boss why do we hire kids who want a job but don't want to do any work. These schemes can be deleterious to organisational morale, to develop henry's point, and you get a "crown prince syndrome" if these people are not bloodied in combat at grass roots level to earn the respect of their less well-educated, less opinionated, and more experienced peers.

But by far the worst were the MBA's. Too many over-educated prats who would mouth off about discounted cash flow or something in front of 20 year business veterans as though they had the subject nailed. If ever there was an over-valued qualification, I would nominate for starters the MBA from some Arizona university where the populace are about as familiar with the real world as I am with Serbo-Croat verbs in the subjunctive. You practically had to take these kids back 5 years and dismantle all their preconceptions then teach them how things are done on this planet, not theirs. I'd rather put the money into a few stars out there on the line and send them to night school.

Certainly part of my remit was to refresh the organisation with intellectual resources for succession planning and the future. But I used to spend a lot of my timne telling these chappies why I wouldn't give them a job and to go out and get their hands dirty at the sharp end of some business or other then re-apply.
By far and away the Asian graduates (from all countries over there, and especially the women) were sharp as tacks and soaked up knowledge like sponges. They were a delight to work with and had none of this hubris non sense. The continental Europeans (surprise surprise) produced more prima donnas than Sadlers Wells.
Experience of ANY University - henry k
Growler.That sounds oh so familiar!
I had a reputation for breaking /not approving software.
I simply pressed the wrong buttons and the software fell over.
You should not press those buttons came the reply.
Well then will you ensure the world will not make mistakes?

Re MBA. There does seem to be some decent MBAs available but to attend the student needs experience of the coal face and then they can bring something practical to the course. All the rest of the MBAs are theory based and are suspect.

Conversely a strap line I like but I do not know where it came from. Management, at its risk, ignores the guy doing the job.

I agree about the work ethic of Asian people I have worked with but I found they would not easily think outside the box, to use that expression. Some of it was caused by the pecking order in their company.
Happy days!
Experience of ANY University - Adam {P}
I've read all of the above comments and I must say I agree with most, if not all of them.

You have people in my class who, (especially in the new year that's just started) you try to be nice too either because you've never met them before, or they have no friends in the new group. (Fortunately, I'm in mostly the same group). They're just rude. They always do the work but that's all they do. It sounds crazy but they musn't have a life.

Don't get me wrong, you should study - but there's a fine line between doing the work and becoming a hermit.

On a more general note...Uni. I just found myself here to be honest. Sounds crazy. Out of 200 Sixth Formers, 2 never went to Uni. That figure was probably the other way around 10 years ago. In 10 years time, everyone will have a degree and those who don't will be left behind. Is this not going to devalue what a degree is worth? Very philosophical for a Sunday I know.

Before you ask what I want to do when I leave Uni, I want to join the police. Yes. Laugh. I found it amusing too.
--
Adam
Experience of ANY University - THe Growler
I don't think an interest in joining the police is laughable at all. It will give you invaluable skills in understanding and dealing with people in particular and the human condition in general (which would interest me were I a potential recruiter should you decide to move into commerce later on)not to mention on your part an abiding cynicism and a deep understanding of what constitutes "activity" vs "results" and "motion" vs. "progress". New Labour being a marvellous case of study for both, along with a few other gov'ts.

My gripe with Uni's/Business colleges was and still is, they appeared to have no plans or resources to equip their progeny for the next step. My daughter rcently graduated. Nobody taught her how to write a CV, how to interview, how to express her strengths, how to deal with challenging questions. How to research the sort of organisations she might be interested in and how to present herself to get their attention. At the risk of being immodest she was lucky to have an HR Dad to help her out and she is well on the way to ggeting a decent job in textile esign with a reputable organisation.

I submit academia continues to fail in it primary function, which is to create energetic, educated focussed intellectual resources for the wealth-making sectors to draw on, along with challenging, streting meaningful jobs. Academia hires too many open-toed sandals and not enough hard-nosed business -oriented real life attitudes. I have a right to be annoyed about this, consider into the years and $$$ I put into my little darling's education.

If you are a regular reader of the Grauniad sits vac of course you could be be easily misled that the sole purpose of education was to produce anti anything worthwhile seatwarming jobs-worths, an activity which feeds the consumption of graduates without contributing anything to the wealth of the community whose efforts pay for them to indulge their loony-tunes fantasies with distractions like anti-hunting demos and gender confusion counselling clinics.

Gad, it's beer o'clock already. How time flies. Must go.


Inserting a pause when tone dialing - SjB {P}
My wife and I have started to use an excellent non-subsciption discount telephone service whereby all calls are simply represented by the access number we dial on our normal BT bill.

This is all well and good, costs buttons (my wife can now call home in the Czech Republic for an hour every day if she so wishes, and still have change from 50 pence) and the service has proven exactly as advertised, but we experience one down side.

This is that each type of call (UK landline, UK mobile, Czech, Canada, US, etc) requires a different access number, and you can't dial the destination number until the digital voice on the end of the access number has finished its greeting.

The result is that although we have saved the various access numbers in our home phone memory, we then have to manually dial the destination number, instead of recalling it from the memory.

What I would therefore like to do is to restore each number in the phone directory as a concatenation of 'access number' || 'pause' || 'destination number'.

Is there a standard sequence of characters (ie perhaps involving # and * symbols) that represents such a pause, please? If so, I will programme enough of these pauses in to the memory as to last for the duration required.


Many thanks.
Inserting a pause when tone dialing - SjB {P}
I'll answer my own question!

There does not appear to be an ISO standard for dialing pause sequences, but, despite having tried for quite some time before posting my question, I have now found the answer I needed thanks to Google.

In case you are interested, the telephone is a BT Diverse 3000 series, and a pause is achieved by pressing and holding the R button where needed in the number string.

The Diverse 3000 series is now quite old in telephony terms, but I found what I needed in the later 4000 series .PDF handbook downloaded from BT, so I guess it may work for any Diverse cordless phone. For that matter, it may actually work with any phone for which the software is infact Siemens.
Inserting a pause when tone dialing - JohnX
My answers a bit off the mark but if you had been using a mobile , you can enter a pause by pressing the * button 3 times quickly in succession.
Just thought I would write if anyone else had the same ideas on using this to access cheaper divert services from their mobile.
May even work in your BT Diverse Phone??!!
Inserting a pause when tone dialing - smokie
Or couldn't you have had 1 quick dial for the access number then another for the destination number which you press once the voice bit is over?

Never mind anyway, too late...
Dominican Republic conditions - wemyss
My daughter and family go on holiday on the 6th of next month to the Dominican Republic and are worried over conflicting reports they are getting regarding conditions after the recent hurricanes.
One person who came back told them it was grim with all the sand washed off the beach and electricity supplies very fragile.
Another told them it was OK.
She has contacted Thomsons who say they have sent a team out to evaluate and will report on Monday.
However if they wish to change destinations it will cost £30 per person unless Thomson deem it unsatisfactory on their report.
They are undecided on how to proceed and I?ve been surfing the net to try and out what it is actually like out there at present with no success.
Has anyone any knowledge or advice to offer.


Dominican Republic conditions - Pugugly {P}
fco website is very helpful, honest.
Dominican Republic conditions - wemyss
Thanks for that, have found a couple of useful pages and passed them on to her. Should have thought of that myself...
West Midlands relocation - 9000
I've potentially got a relocation coming up and may need to move to the west mids. I know almost nothing about the area and whilst I have had a drive around there I still don't have a good feel for the place. I'm sure there must be plenty of Backroomers who have a good knowledge of the area so could any one suggest somewhere nice to live/ areas to avoid.

Main criteria- close to but not right in the centre of a town/ city, safe and clean, within a 20 mile radius of Dudley, good public transport for Mrs 9000 as she doesn't drive, reasonable employment prospects for Mrs 9000.

I've had a brief look on the net for town/ city reviews in the area but most sites I have found are really no more than links to local businesses so any good web sites would be useful too.

Thanks

9000
West Midlands relocation - Hugo {P}
I can't give you any pointers specifically about the area, but I guess if you do get relocated, you'll get a few months in a B and B paid for by your employer.

Unless an area takes your fancy straight away, use these months to look around and talk to colleagues at your new workplace as well. They won't have a vested interest in trying to guide you in a given direction, estate agents will.

When I moved down here I was offered the job 4 days before I was due to start. I didn't have to leave a previous job so this worked out well.

It was all I could do to get to a B and B, start work then start looking in a week or two. Wife came down a few times and we just shortlisted areas based on talking to colleagues and affordability. Then we started asking for house details.

Looking at properties got us into certain villages and towns and we had a good look at the surrounding area and spoke to the locals, from the shop keepers to the landlord of the local pub. They all told us what was going on and what plans the Local and highway authorities had for the area.

The problem with getting other peoples' feelings is, although someone here could recommend a village 20 miles from Dudley that seemed to suit your requirements, for some inexplicable reason it may not be to your liking, so all that effort in trying to find house details in that area would be wasted, whereas you could have spent the time driving over there and seeing it.

I absolutely love the village where I live yet other people find it oppresive, a friend of mine who now lives in Cambridge hated this village, because it reminded him of a similar village up north where he grew up and spent his formative years trying to escape from. My mother's house is in a fantastic village on the cornish coast, yet I do not like that village at all.

The HR manager at my last place told me that when they relocated several people from a different site in the south east they gave them an all expenses paid weekend to see the area and many of them bought houses they saw on that weekend, some very expensive mistakes were made as they never gave it enough time to get a feel for the area.

Anyway, FWIW those are my thoughts

Best of luck

Hugo
West Midlands relocation - Baskerville
I've relocated to different (and unknown to me) parts of Britain three times in the last decade and five times in the last eighteen years, plus a stint in California. The last time we moved from the South East to the North West (of England). What we did then was buy an Ordnance Survey map of the area and think about what we wanted from a place to live: close to town but not urban, close to a railway station, good access to the motorway network, not on a flood plain etc. We visited the area for a weekend, having arranged to view some houses (a really good way to see different neighbourhoods that you otherwise wouldn't stop to look at). A few weeks later we came up for a week, looked at more houses and found one we liked. The whole process, from finding out we would be moving to moving into our house took ten weeks--we've been here five years now, the longest we've ever lived in the same house since leaving home.

Good luck.
West Midlands relocation - Baskerville
Oh, and another thing, get out of your car and walk around a neighbourhood you think looks promising on the map. You get a much better feel for things like how busy a road is, how far away the shops are, whether there is a park hidden behind a row of houses and so on.
West Midlands relocation - Robin Reliant
One thing I would suggest is to visit any area you fancy living in during the evening, particularly Friday and Saturday and find out if your particular road is a hangout for the local posse after school turns out.

Even the best areas can have one undesireable living there, and that tends to attract like minded mates.
West Midlands relocation - Cardew
Almost anywhere to the East of Dudley means you will have to cross the Greater Birmingham conurbation to get to work. Although there are some nice parts in that area they are greatly outnumbered by grotty parts. However it would suit your wife from the work/public transport aspect.

By far the nicest areas are to the West. In the area bordered by Albrighton in the North, to Bridgenorth and down to Stourport on Severn there are some nice villages. Kidderminster is not bad although there are areas to avoid - ditto Stourbridge. The trouble will be infrequent public transport.

As someone more famous than I once said - "Go West Young Man!"
West Midlands relocation - 9000
Thanks for the replies- a fair bit to think about there.

9000
West Midlands relocation - PoloGirl
Oh blimey. Speaking as someone who has lived "within 20 miles of Dudley" (in Wolverhampton to be specific) for the last two years, my first reaction is, do you love your job enough to move here? Seriously... once you've "done" Dudley, your life will never be the same again! Personally if I had the choice and the money, I'd head towards Shropshire or South Staffordshire, rather than Black Country.

Without knowing where you're relocating from or what you're looking for, it's a bit hard to advise - for example, Sedgeley is the nearest nice bit to Dudley, but speaking as someone who came from a small town with lots of greenery where you could leave your car unlocked on the drive all night and not worry about it, even Sedgely doesn't strike me as particularly nice. Also, it's right next to Cosely, which is to be avoided at all costs. Try not to live anywhere near the Birmingham New Road as it will take you twice as long as normal to get anywhere. Lots of new developments over Halesowen/Stourbridge way... actually that seems to be picking up a bit recently.

In terms of entertainment and earning for Mrs 9000, you can't beat Merry Hill (which is actually in Brierley Hill) for shopping, and many large companies have their HQs on the waterfront (well..canal front) near there - Inland Revenue, Egg, Travelodge etc. None of that is any use of course if she's not an admin type person, but it might help you to know that I've been temping in the university holidays and since graduating and have never been out of work.

I hated Wolverhampton when I first moved here, but it's taken over two years to get to know which are the best areas, and which are the ones where you lock your doors and try not to slow down to less than 10mph (lots of those to be honest). Would definitely advise renting for 6 months to a year while you get your head around the area and the accent - it's a whole other world up here! I actually quite like it here now, and I can see that places that are being built now, as the heart of the city redevelops, will be worth a lot more in, say 10 years time.

Feel free to drop me an email if you need any info, contacts or a couple of tour guides one weekend ... don't worry, I wont drive! :)



West Midlands relocation - 9000
Thanks for taking the time to write such a long post PG.

I may well take you up on your kind offer nearer the time.

I think your're right about renting initially- it's just a question of where. I'm still going to have to think carefully about where I move to first as if Mrs 9000 gets a good job up there I don't want to have to ask her to move again.


9000
Solvent for Bosswhite jointing compound. - pmh
I had to reuse some old plumbing compression fittings on Sunday pm. The old Bosswhite (or similar) jointing compound was VERY hard and made reuse of some parts not practical. I quickly tried a couple of solvents (white spirit & meths), but without much sucess, does any body know what is an appropriate solvent. if only to soften the old crud.

I knew that the box of old fittings would come in useful one day!!!




pmh (was peter)
Solvent for Bosswhite jointing compound. - wemyss
Yes they can be used as many times over as you wish? However you will need new olives for them as getting them off old tube can make them unusable. Remove the boss white of the threads with a junior hacksaw and if necessary clean the fitting up with wire wool if you?re fussy.
One point to remember is that it depends how old they are. We went metric in the early 70s and some sizes aren?t compatible with modern tube sizes. I/2 inch is ok with 15mm. 3/4inch to 22mm is not. 1? to 28mm is OK.
1?1/4 to 35mm is not and neither is 1?1/2 to 42mm.
But you can buy adapters for any sizes to make them fit.
Incidentally boss white should only be used on the olive which is the part which makes the seal and no PFTE tape either.
Suitcase repair. - SjB {P}
Just discovered a problem with our swanky, double mortgage, so far superb, but now long outside guarantee, large Samsonite suit case.

The case has a 5mm thick rubber bumper that runs all the way round the rim of each lid, immediately adjacent to the closure join. Because the case has four small wheels however, the bumper elements parallel with the ground often make contact with it, the result of which is that the double sided sticky tape securing it to a shallow aluminium channel has sheared, and the rubber now hangs loose.

I am loathe to repair with more double sided sticky tape, and would rather use a durable glue. Bearing in mind that I will properly clean both surfaces first, and that we travel a lot with this case, what can BRers recommend, please, that will:

1) Stick rubber to aluminium
2) Withstand ground handling, conveyor belt, and bumpy pavement abuse
3) Resist temperature change
4) Resist puddle immersion
5) Resist being dragged through -20deg C snow at Prague airport and Olomouc train station this Christmas!

TVM


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Suitcase repair. - Pugugly {P}
Araldite.
Suitcase repair. - SjB {P}
Thanks DD. Again, oh for an edit button at least to correct the title if not the location. Got distracted doing too many things at once and didn't post from the root of the thread.
Suitcase repair. - SjB {P}
Thanks PU. I got very close to using this last night actually, before I wimped out. Having got a second opinion, I'll go ahead!
Suitcase repair. - pmh
I would be very tempted to roughen up the Aluminium to give the Araldite something to key to. It may even be worth drilling some small (say 1mm holes) across the extrusion to give a really good key. Are you sure of araldite and rubber? Whilst it says it works for rubber I would do a trial first, particularly if it has a very smooth surface.




pmh (was peter)
Suitcase repair. - IanT
Evostik will stick rubber to aluminium. Its advantage is that it should give a slightly more flexible seal than Araldite. Its disadvantage is its instant stick - get things aligned right first time!

Ian
Suitcase repair. - Mapmaker
I agree with IanT. Araldite is a very 'hard' glue, so it will crack in use when subjected to sheer stresses.
Telecom question - Clanger
I have a BT line with caller display enabled and a phone system that stores the last 50 callers' numbers. Yesterday, while we were out, an entry appeared on the phone with my own telephone number shown. I can't see how this could happen given that if you called your own number it would be engaged and the call would never get as far as your own phone sytem. If I do dial my own number I get a message "sorry, if you want to acces your message service from home, you must dial 1571".

Am I being monumentally stupid, or can anyone shed any light?

TIA
Hawkeye
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Stranger in a strange land
Telecom question - Cardew
Could it be via your computer somehow? Or a BT line check? Can't think how though.

I suggest you check it out with BT faults.
Telecom question - Welliesorter
I can think of two possible reasons for your own number to appear on your caller display.
  1. You have Call Minder (or a similar answering service) which calls you back to inform you that you have a new message.
  2. Someone has left you a message using BT Text and the messaging service has called you to let you know that there's a new message. If you don't have a phone that's compatible with the service, this will be converted to speech and left as a voice message. I've just confirmed that it does this (and your own number appears) by sending an SMS to my own BT landline.
See www.bt.com/bttext/ for more information.
Telecom question - Clanger
Thanks for telecom responses.BT text seems most likely but I've no idea who would send me a landline text and 1571 says there are no messages.
Hawkeye
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Stranger in a strange land
Telecom question - Welliesorter
If (very) easily amused, try sending a text message to your BT landline number and include some swear words to hear the nice BT lady say them.

(This won't work if you're on Virgin Mobile or Orange.)
Telecom question - PoloGirl
If (very) easily amused, try sending a text message to your
BT landline number and include some swear words to hear the
nice BT lady say them.
(This won't work if you're on Virgin Mobile or Orange.)


Evidently it doesn't work on O2 either ;)

Telecom question - Welliesorter
Evidently it doesn't work on O2 either ;)


It should do. O2 was the last network to make it possible, but full interworking has been available for a few weeks. To confirm my theory regarding Hawkeye's original question, I sent myself a message from my own O2 mobile yesterday.

I may be wrong (or out-of-date) but I believe Virgin and Orange have decided not to make the service available to their customers, although they should still be able to receive messages from BT landline phones.

I would offer to send you an obscene message if you really want one but I suspect you're not that desperate!
Thanks to Renault Family - SjB {P}
Can't post in the original IHAQ thread as it's now locked, but wanted to say thank you for your suggestion that having combined 802.11b and 802.11g protocol support on my wireless router may be the cause of annoying Cisco VPN tunnel dropout.

Nigh on a week since forcing connection to the 802.11b standard, and as was already indicated within 24 hours or doing so, I have not had a single such problem.

Bliss and sanity restored (including of colleagues elsewhere on the globe when I drop out of NetMeeting or somesuch) in equal measure!

Many thanks. :-)
Clothes for small men - pete&hisgolf
I'm short (5'7) and not particularly broad (36" chest, 30" waist) and I have real problems getting clothes that fit. GAP is OK but I don't want to get all my clothes there, and they don't do suits.

Any suggestions?
Clothes for small men - commerdriver
Appreciate the problem since I am 5 foot 4. Both my teenage sons about that size got suits in Marks & Spencer, they didnt have a lot of choice but they had some there & then and could order others if we wanted, younger son (17) even got a 28" waist
Clothes for small men - pete&hisgolf
Thanks for that. Marks & Sparks stuff used to fit me, but for the last 5 years they seemed to have stopped doing small suit fittings. Maybe it's time for another visit....
Clothes for small men - BobbyG
Next do a large variety of sizes and fittings via their catalogue. Most trousers are available in 3 lengths, the shortest being 29".

Hope this helps.
Clothes for small men - Dalglish
pete&golf -

a bit of lateral (no pun intended) thinking : plan your next holiday to be in thailand or san-fran/california.
thailand as you can get off the peg or made-to-measure.
san-fran a as there are a lot of orientals there and you should again find off the peg to suit you sir.

Clothes for small men - paulb {P}
I have a similar problem, but at the other end of the size range :-) Agree about Gap, fine if you want jeans and jumpers and if you can run to their prices.

I've found that Suits You do a very wide range of sizes, much better than M&S and others, and not only do they do the suits, but the shirts and ties too. Prices are very keen (discounts thrown at you if you're buying several items, regular sales) and quality is perfectly good. Also, they (or at least our local one) have a highly efficient alteration service if things need to be taken in/up or let out/down and so on. Worth a try, if you have one reasonably local to you?
mobile phone problem - borasport20
i'm hoping someone can identify the problem or recommend another resource where I can find out more.

SWMBO is currently in germany. When she rang last night, after a minute or so, there were 4 audible clicks, then her phone went dead - same thing happened three times.

phone is a nokia 3310 on virgin, and the same problem did not occur when she was over there a fortnight ago. I don't know if the phone is physically turning itself off or not, so it could be phone, network, anything ?

any ideas ?

ta


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Sept 2004 - 'Britain on the Move'
curious ? see www.mikes-walks.co.uk
mobile phone problem - Welliesorter
i'm hoping someone can identify the problem or recommend another resource
where I can find out more.


Two newsgroups: uk.telecom.mobile or alt.cellular.nokia.

Both searchable via groups.google.com/advanced_group_search?hl=en

Before doing anything else, I'd make sure that the battery contacts are clean and that the SIM is firmly in place.
mobile phone problem - kennybase
Its not a credit problem is it? Being abroad uses more credit, but I'm not sure who Virgin work so this is just a possible cause.
mobile phone problem - borasport20
no, it's not a credit problem. Perceived wisdom on usenet is that even tho the phone was on the mains, its a battery problem. We'll see when she gets home


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Sept 2004 - 'Britain on the Move'
curious ? see www.mikes-walks.co.uk
Phone extension problem. - daveyjp
Another phone query!

When someone calls our home phone it rings once on the extension upstairs then goes dead. When they ring back there are no further problems, similarly if anyone else rings the same day it rings no problems, but 24 hours later the problem comes back. We are on NTL cable and have one extension off the main box and another daisy chain extension of the first extension for the computer modem.

Any ideas?

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Phone extension problem. - pmh
Are you sure that the REN is not exceeded? Check if all is well with only 1 phone on the master socket with all extension wiring disconnected. If that works satisfactorily (all the time), then progressively connect back extension wiring and individual phones to see if problem comes back. Do you not have an answering machine as well?

I assume NTL will normally support a nominal REN4, but if you are on a long line or there is a faulty cable, possible damp corroded joints?........





pmh (was peter)
Where to Park In Telford? - No Do$h
Well I\'m off on my travels again. From Monday I\'ll be working Telford until Christmas.

I\'ll be working on Ironmasters Way, fairly close to the central rail station.

Anybody local to or familiar with Telford able to recommend somewhere to park within 5-10 minutes walk? Council Car park or similar?

As usual the local council site has nothing on it for motorists and plenty of details of local bus companies. Great if you\'re a visitor......
Where to Park In Telford? - Phil I
Most companies in Telford New Town have their own large car parks ND. Shouldn\'t be any problems with parking.

Happy commuting from Poole/Bournemouth??
Phil I
Where to Park In Telford? - No Do$h
I have been instructed in no uncertain terms that there will be NO parking on the client\'s site :o(

As for commuting, you are having a laugh? 3.5 hours up on a Monday morning and probably closer to a 5 hour return on Friday. I\'ve found a rather pleasant 4* with a gym and negotiated a travel-lodge style rate with them. It\'s about 3.5 miles from the office. You never know, I may just lose weight on this contract!
Where to Park In Telford? - Phil I
NO parking on site. They really do not deserve your services with such treatment of contractors. Typical. I bet you get the rotten chair too.!!

Commute comment should have had smiley. Forget the motorway on Friday. Take back road all the way down to Kidderminster and join at Jct.6. I should take the bike if you can as you will find some v. good rides in the area.

Phil I
Where to Park In Telford? - No Do$h
NO parking on site. They really do not deserve your
services with such treatment of contractors. Typical. I bet you get
the rotten chair too.!!
Commute comment should have had smiley. Forget the motorway on
Friday. Take back road all the way down to Kidderminster and
join at Jct.6. I should take the bike if you can
as you will find some v. good rides in the area.


Why yes, I usually do get the chair that looks like an angry, chair hating dog has been chewing on it.

Thanks for tip on the return journey. I'm planning on getting away at lunchtime on Fridays.
Where to Park In Telford? - Dynamic Dave
Thanks for tip on the return journey. I'm planning on
getting away at lunchtime on Fridays.


Part timer ;o)
Where to Park In Telford? - No Do$h
>> Thanks for tip on the return journey. I'm planning
on
>> getting away at lunchtime on Fridays.
Part timer ;o)


Once I've put in 40 hours or so and delivered on what the client needs of me.
Where to Park In Telford? - blue_haddock
Hi No Dosh,

As someone born and bred in telford (should i admit that?) i can say that as far as i'm aware all the office blocks on ironmasters way do have parking but it is limited so your best off parking over the road on staples/blockbusters car park or if you fancy a bit more of a walk park up on the B&Q and Halfords car park up on the bridge retail park.

If you need any other advice or info on telford drop me a line and i'll sort you out.

Kev
Where to Park In Telford? - No Do$h
Cheers Kev, I may take you up on that.